KatieKat
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Thaanks, yes it was certainly a memorable experience, haha.
It is definitely something that I would enjoy doing again – he was fantastic in bed, and he was a great kisser (we tongue-kissed a lot for long moments at a time), so it is quite tempting to try to arrange something like this again.
I am not sure if he meets the same girls several times, but he probably gets those requests quite a lot.
I am not sure how often he meets girls this way, but I am pretty sure that he regularly meets girls during the weekends – that is my guess.Well, I had made it pretty clear from the start that I was trying to seduce him, haha – I had removed a piece of clothing so that I walked up to him in a tight and somewhat low-cut top, and I flirted with him and told him that I found him very attractive, so I got to the point right away, so to speak.
Then a few minutes of flirting later he spontaneously said that I could follow him home the next day during the break if I wanted to, and even though I felt that this was probably rushed, I couldn’t say no to that opportunity.I will see what I do with this in the future, but I would certainly not mind another casual meeting like this.
We had sex today, during a 2-hour break, and I definitely DON’T regret it.
It was very obvious that he was experienced – he was 100% confident and comfortable with everything, and knew exactly how to turn me on, and he had basically mastered every single thing, as far as I could tell.
We had sex for probably an hour (he did use a condom, and I had taken birth control pills), and none of us seemed to ever have enough – we stopped pretty much because we had to go back to school, haha.I think that both of us agreed that this was a hook-up, although I wouldn’t mind having sex with him again.
I am not sure if he meets the same girls several times, but I will see what I do. ^_~One thing that I did notice about him was that he took it fairly easy a lot of the time;
he did take action in different ways, but I think most of our time consisted of me going cowgirl on him, and he lying back and enjoying that, but we enjoyed those parts a lot as well, haha.Haha, well I guess I will start a conversation with him, compliment him on his clothes or whatever else and try to make it as flirty as possible and look for an opportunity to touch him.
This will of course depend on how he responds to my approach, but I will probably notice pretty quickly if he is in the right mood”.
Then I guess I might invite him to “watch a movie this evening” or something like that – this would definitely give him a strong hint.I have noticed him glancing at my body a for a couple seconds on a few occasions when I haven’t looked directly at him, so that seems like a promising sign that he probably finds me attractive as well (I have got compliments on my appearance from other guys and from my friends, so hopefully he feels that same way).
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Well, I am typically quite shy myself, so this makes it a bit trickier for me to approach this guy compared to more outgoing girls.
He has caught me checking him out on several occasions, although I am not sure if he recognises this as interest.I guess I will end up telling him that he is very good-looking, and then maybe asking him if he wants to do something some day.
I am not sure if this is “to the point” enough so that he will know for sure that I am trying to sleep with him, but I guess I will give him some body language clues and things like that without thinking about it.I am pretty used to flirting when it happens in small steps, but I have never flirted with a guy specifically to build up for an opportunity to sleep with him as early as possible, so I am not totally sure how things work in that type of situation.
I guess I will get a kind of natural feel for it when I actually get into that situation – hopefully next week – but it is a bit tricky to know how it will work right now before I have been in that situation.My guess is that I will probably do a lot of non-verbal flirting, and look for a chance to touch him while I flirt with him if he seems to be in the mood for that.
I guess it might also be a plus if I happen to wear clothes that trigger his curiosity some more, although it might be too much if I deliberately choose those types of clothes just for that specific situation.
But I guess I can pick some of my everyday clothes that happen to be an advantage for this situation – I will see what I do, haha.I guess so.
I do remember that one girl told him that she thought he is very good-looking, and at the same time did things like having very flirty eye contact with him while moving one of her hands over one of his forearms, and asking him if they could meet some time.
I would assume that he “got the hint” there.Yes, it is a physical hook-up that is my goal here;
I have made up my mind now.I am just kind of unused to giving a hook-up invitation straight away like this, since my previous dates have developed a lot more gradually, so it is a bit tricky for me to tell where I cross the line between “straight to the point” and “slutty”.
I would of course prefer to not fall into the later category, since that would feel a bit demeaning in general, but yet at the same time make it very clear that I am ready for some fun with him in bed.My baseline at the moment is to make it very clear to him that I am ready for the physical part, but at the same time stay on a level that wouldn’t look inappropriate in public.
I guess the actual situation will flow a lot more naturally when I approach him.It’s just my first impressions of him based on how I have seen him interact around other people, and I haven’t really seen anything in his behaviour that indicates anything else.
Hopefully, this will turn out to be true when I start flirting with him, so that there isn’t anything about his attitude that will actually annoy me.I am 19 at the moment, and I have heard from several people that I am attractive;
I am 5’4 in height, slender and curvy, and I often hear that I have a cute face, so I think I have good chances on that point, haha.I think that what I mean regarding what I want to get out of all this is that I cannot say for sure how I will end up feeling if I have had sex with him.
However, I feel that I am currently attracted to his looks, and then the fact that he seems like a decent person is merely a bonus in the sense that there hasn’t been anything about his behaviour that I have actually considered a turn-off in any way.
Like if he for example acted very arrogant, then I would probably find him much less hot, since that part of him would bug me.
But there isn’t anything like that about him that has made him look worse in that way, so that is a good thing.As for the whole thing about being direct with him, I do plan on being a bit like that;
I just want to also keep this at a level so that I don’t look indecent around other people, so to speak.
But I guess I could seduce him quite safely by telling him that he is hot and wearing leggings and a tight tank top, or something like that.
I will see what I end up doing, haha.He wasn’t in school today, so I will see if I make any attempts next week instead;
I will try it when I see him.Either way, I think I might have caused some misunderstandings here;
I didn’t mean that the other girls act loose, I just meant that I was careful to not exaggerate my planned approach and end up acting that way myself.
I haven’t seen the other girls act particularly loose towards him, other than the occasional instance when someone has told him that he is hot and things like that, but other than that, they seem to just be very attracted to him.
I also wouldn’t say that they dress particularly loose either – I remember them wearing fairly standard everyday clothes.Then as for his number of dates per week – that was just a guess.
I was thinking that it seemed likely that he had dates with girls during the weekends, since most students take a break from studies those days, and then there might also be some occasions when he might meet some girls during some long break or something like that.
But of course, I shouldn’t think about this stuff too much, so I will stop doing that.-
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I don’t think that he has sex with other girls super-often, since I see him study a lot during our classes and stay focused on the subjects and all of that, but I would guess that he may have sex with maybe 1-2 girls per week on average.
I remember that I have seen him turn down girls on several occasions, and I guess this was either because he was busy studying, or because he had planned to meet someone else those times.I will see how it goes when I approach him tomorrow;
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