anonymousse
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The only way you’re being judged that I can see is you moved back in with someone who canceled your wedding.
You’re being really vague about your son, so that’s why you’re getting pushback and people asking for clarification.
+1 focus on your son, and forget about this guy.
Your son needs help, and that is your responsibility as a parent.Is your son screaming? You screaming at your son?
This man doesn’t want to marry you. He’s not going to. I can’t see how it has anything to do with your son, considering that you’re all living together again.
If you and your son are screaming at each other constantly, you need a counselor or a therapist to help you both communicate better. This isn’t healthy.
Getting married sounds like the very least of the problems that you have.
Your light bulb is the one not going off. You should leave him.
You’re the one who wants to think badly about and tear down your SIL for not spending as much money. That’s you. You wrote in because she gave your kid a knock off gift. How does she even know it was a knock off? You’re materialistic and literally looking for ways to be mad at this woman. How could you even compare what she bought for her own children vs yours? Who cares that she got a load of gifts?
You should go find a qualified therapist for yourself and your ego issues.
Why did you write in?
If you are going to lie to pump up your ego, at least make it sound convincing.
Have you told your wife about your preacher’s wife texts yet?
Maybe you should leave your kid out of your petty fight with your SIL.
You need to wake up and see your son for who he is. He didn’t get mixed up in the wrong crowd- He is the wrong crowd. Alcohol is no excuse for abuse or domestic assault. I see you’re still blaming anyone and anything you can for your children’s own choices and behavior.
Months ago, when you wrote in, we told you that you need to find a therapist. I even linked a site that searches for low or no cost mental health care. Find a grief support group. Months have gone by, and finally you’ve come around to see that your son will not be a good father or role model. Why haven’t you made any concrete steps to address these issues? The internet advice boards are not going to effectively fix your problems. You need real help.
Stop meddling. Stop pressing for another dna test or anything else. Just stop.
Omg. Can you do anything yourself? I just told you. Tell them, in your own words, what happened.
You bring in the old and new tests and tell them exactly what you told us.
What a fucking surprise. It took you this long to come to the conclusion that he’s never going to be a good dad?!
Stop pressuring him. Leave it alone. If you need to meddle in something to feel alive, help him get to therapy where he can work through his addiction, anger and abuse issues. Other than that, stay out of it.
You’ve already done enough.
