Lianne
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Wednesday and Thursday??? God, I must be getting older faster than I thought because any night that doesn’t start with an S, I just can’t hang 🙂
Yeah but, wouldn’t you make an exception for a guy you were super excited about going out with?
The only guys I ever nicknamed were my one night stands (there were only 4) because I was never gonna see them again. I agree with others in that there’s got to be the openness that you would share with the dude.
After 2.5 months, you’re not leading anyone on. This is still the getting to know you phase. It’s still the time where you’re both evaluating how you feel. And yeah, this dude is telling you that you make him really happy…but we’ve all been with guys who say that one day and then change their tune the next. Try to shrug off the pressure. Just take it one date at a time.
Yeah, I think it’s got to be a gut decision for you. No one here can tell you what to do. But you admitted you get anxious and doubtful, so that’s the only reason I say see what happens. Sometimes we can be our own worst enemies…
Fair points, Kate. Just…don’t assume he’s just confused. Assume he’s doing all of these fucked up things intentionally. Stay alert and vigilant.
I actually think if anyone is making you feel uncomfortable at work, it’s grounds for reporting to HR. If I were you, I would just start documenting any incidents like this. It can’t hurt. He is dangerous and could be baiting you to build his own case. I don’t trust this guy. At all.
I am sorry you had to go through yet another manipulation by your psychopathic ex boyfriend, Ale. And he IS a psychopath for continually messing with your mind and your heart. You deserve better and need to block him on all forms of contact. And I do think you should look for a new job, even if it is not necessarily better for your career (shouldn’t be a step down though!). This is a toxic environment for you. He’s taunting you. You can also go to HR, but that’s up to you.
Fair enough guys. Perhaps I misread her tone. I just thought it was too much of a blanket statement.
@Dre, that’s not what I said. You made a blanket statement, that I didn’t think was fair.
Kate, I wanted those Ann Taylor shoes but they don’t have my size. BUT looks like they have a 50% off sale today!
Yeah I think there is a big difference in dating a guy who was previously married (NBD) and one who has kids with someone else (BD). Not only will the kids come first, as they should, he will be forever tied to the mother of his kids.
