Lianne
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Yeah I would have to agree with Wendy and Skyblossom. There’s a difference between normal, early relationship issues (like what ktfran described) and full on meltdowns very early in dating. I definitely think Wendy’s advice about perhaps putting dating or potential new relationships on hold until periods of stress are over is sound. I will admit there were times in my dating life that I could have benefited from it. I think at times like those, we might be looking for someone to fix us or hold us up…that’s what family and good friends are for…not a new guy.
Sorry that happened and it came out at an inconvenient time and in such a dramatic way. But that’s how things work sometimes. You are going along, enjoying your relationship and then WHAM you act crazy and need to figure out why. I think the important thing is, you got to the root of why you were feeling so upset and talked it through. Hopefully you see some changes on that front and it will all be for the best.
And hopefully you can go away this weekend and enjoy yourselves. Don’t let this put a black cloud over the weekend.
OH I missed that it was @ktfran’s birthday yesterday since I was in meetings ALL DAY. Happy belated. Is this the weekend the guy is taking you away for a night?
Haha Kate you do that now and you’re married. 🙂
Stone I’m so happy for you. I know you are trying to make it work with your main partner again, but maybe it’s just not worth the effort? I dunno. It just sounds like you give him a lot and he either doesn’t appreciate it or doesn’t see it? When you had issues with his other partner it didn’t sound like your feelings were as valid. What’s his issue with this? Do you think it could be that he likes having someone else but doesn’t like you doing the same? Especially when it’s with someone you seem to like so much? Just speculating…
Yeah I had a pixie cut and it didn’t hurt anything. Don’t let that distract you!
That sounds awesome, @shakeourtree! Love it!
@money, I totally missed your update the other day – odd. Sounds like something I would have done in my single days hahaha. There was one time I was making out with a 20 year old up against a pole at a bar surrounded by my 30-something friends…the best was when he asked if we could go back to my place and I was like, oh sweetie…no. Hahahaha…what did you decide about texting him? I say fuck it – can’t hurt!
Btw. Are you a Cancer?
Your life IS fascinating. I know you think not, but to an old married lady it definitely is ☺️
Glad everyone had fun New Year’s so far! I was up til 1:30 and feel like shit today. Can’t do that anymore!
Kare…what do you mean by escalated?? Details please!
Well maybe not better, but easier? Also lots of people report a higher sex drive and with it comes better/easier orgasms…I am probably just looking for a unicorn that doesn’t exist and I built up in my head hahaha.
