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Congratulations!!!
Copa, I know exactly what you mean about guys wanting to date younger.
When I was on dating sites, after I turned 30 I felt like “Fuck, I’m too old for anybody to want me.”
I would look at profiles of guys who were older than me… let’s say between 31-36…. and in the “looking for” section, ALL of them were looking for women 18-26, or best case 21-29. 29 seemed like this magical cut off for all these men, after that women were considered too old.
Even my friend said that to me. He was 34 and he went on two or three dates with a woman who was 35. He said he liked her but wasn’t going to see her again. I asked him why? He said “She’s too old.”
It really made me feel like shit!
Made it to the UK safe and sound!
@Ale – I hope you’re feeling better today. Wishing you a relaxing, positive weekend 🙂Yeah. I see what you’re saying. I just have no idea what to say.
I took it as a positive sign that he planned our trip to Belfast after all this happened. And that he’s being his usual self. I was kinda just planning to go and see what happens.
Make sure you post some extra awesome pics Copa 😛
@Ale he just said ok let’s talk about it when you get here (but he said it in a really positive way). We really haven’t talked about anything in depth yet. I’ll update you guys after my trip in September 🙂
Yeah, same thing happened to me last year with Pilot Jones. Dude wanted to be exclusive after only a week, and I was sort of like “whoa wtf this is fast” but also, just really excited so I said yes. That relationship crashed and burned fairly quickly and left me pretty emotional. In hindsight, the fact that he wanted to rush was the biggest red flag.
Hope you feel better soon, girl.
@TheLadyE I’m really sorry that things are hard right now 🙁 It seriously sucks. Probably not much we can say that will make you feel better in this moment. Sending you internet hugs.
Thanks for the feedback, guys. I’m not making any big decisions yet. I told him that we should talk about engagement after Christmas and that I wouldn’t be ready to move until next summer. We haven’t agreed on anything, just that we should talk about it in person.
So, lots of time to think things over 🙂
Let us know how it goes 🙂
@Copa hopefully he actually asks you out. I’ve sort of found that if a guy doesn’t actually take the initiative to specifically ask you out again, it means he’s not super interested.
Just read Wendy’s post in another thread about things to do before moving in together…
“5. Be in agreement about potential future steps in your relationship, like marriage and kids, and when you’d like for those to happen.”
That’s basically the discussion I’m having with my boyfriend right now. I’m making sure we’re in agreement about marriage and children before I make any decisions about moving across the world.
