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I kind of want to change the Cockney to the Vegetarian Sausage now. 😀
Well if you’re aware that it might be your signals that lead to some of this confusion, you can only work on your bit right? The other person needs to come along as well. Vulnerability is HARD, I dig it. But you’ve got to greenlight that guy if you’re keen on him, right? Give him clues that he can go for the lean in.
Welll… I don’t want to have a pop at you because you seem like such a nice person but perhaps you’re throwing mixed signals at guys as well, maybe not ones you’re aware of. Dan Savage preaches ask your friends, maybe if this pattern repeats you should set up a double date with a friend couple and ask them what they think?
Just an idea, doesn’t help with HamSandwich. Good luck, I hope he comes and meets the pups!!
hmmmm tough call. Pardon me if this is wrong, I am VERY tired, but isn’t this a bit of a pattern? Like, you can’t tell if a guy likes you or it takes them a long time to get to it?
From my limited experience, guys tend to let you know pretty well if they’re keen. Seven dates in and no real physical contact? That seems a bit iffy to me. But of course there are guys out there that prefer to take it slow, what do I know?
I think @Kate’s spot on, ease off and see if he asks you out?
That’s really great Veritek!! You deserve a good guy! Is he ginger?
I stuck with it to the end, I couldn’t look away. I’m not sure, does ‘Enjoy Sweden’ work here? Because it feels like it works, but I feel terrible for that poor kid.
Yeah, I’d say enjoy it as much as you can because it flies by so fast! My 20’s were a fast time of parties/boys/clubs that I look back fondly even though at the time I was probably keyed up about something. Have fun, most things are temporary (as long as you use condoms!)
Yea this place is really great as a sounding board, no one will pull any punches but what’s said is always done from a desire to help and is usually pretty compassionate. I’m really grateful I stumbled across this place myself and reading all the varying opinions has really helped me along the way, so thank you!
