Reply To: “My Long Distance Boyfriend Demands I Tell Him Every Time I Leave The House”

If in his philosophy a long-distance relationship partner is supposed to declare every trip out of the house and the persons were with or talked to during that trip, then that should apply equally to both partners. If it applies to only one of you, then logically it should be him, because guys cheat more frequently than women do. His one-sided approach is pure misogyny. I’m guessing he’s laughing at you. You need to MOA and get a partner you can see frequently in real life. If you’re determined to stay with this ‘relationship, which is a HUGE mistake, then I think you should tell him that you made a big mistake and should never have promised to participate in this untrusting one-sided ‘accountability’. Give him a week to agree to give up this week, and if he refuses then you must MOA, having given him a second chance to correct at least some of his ways.