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Hi. You are old enough to make your own decision. If you can’t handle your parents negative opinions,you are not ready to get married. Assuming they don’t disapprove of him for valid reasons like drug abuse or abusive/criminal behavior, do what seems right for you two. Though I will say, you are both young. Maybe you could move in and if all goes well for a year,then get married.