“Am I Unlovable?”
“I’m 31 and have never had a guy say “I love you” to me.”
“I’m 31 and have never had a guy say “I love you” to me.”
“We recently had a fight about the upcoming holidays and since we fought more than usual last year about the holidays, I’m worried we’re heading for a couple months of frayed nerves and emotional outbursts.”
I met a great guy who was in town for a grad school internship. He is from the Midwest and I am on the East Coast. For about a month and a half we had a whirlwind romance. However, I noticed he never told me much about himself, never really opened up. Now he is back in school in the Midwest and we are about 1,000 miles apart. Before he left, I told him I wanted to continue the relationship if he wanted to. He just put his head down and didn’t say anything. I asked him what airports are near him, and he told me. After he was home for a…
I am a 27-year-old East Coast woman in a very long distance relationship with a 34-year-old German man. We email back and forth at least twice a day, and talk for a long time on the phone or FaceTime at least five times as week. Prior to him, I had casually dated a handful of guys, and at one point had my heart broken by a close friend who ultimately decided he didn’t want me the way I wanted him. But other than that, I’ve pretty much always been genuinely happy flying solo. My boyfriend and I met within the last few months of him living in the US, and dated very…
“I’m super self-conscious around his friends because my job sounds pretty pathetic. Do you have any tricks for ways to boost my confidence a little?”
“Recently, a friend rather unexpectedly told me that he liked me. More than that, he proposed.”
I was casually dating a wealthy guy who loves to party. I saw him every other weekend or so, and our visits were usually booze-filled ones in Vegas. He really “got” me…
This Saturday is my oldest friend’s wedding. We have been best friends on and off for the past decade and seem to go through the same cycle over and over again: we will be the best of friends and then she’ll stand me up when we have plans and call me crazy when I express my disappointment. Usually, a month later, I’ll get an apology and she’ll tell me that she just didn’t feel like doing what we had planned. I then forgive her (as long as she promises to actually change this time) and begin to trust her again. Most recently when this happened, I told her I didn’t know if…
I was in a relationship with this guy about seven years ago and we recently got back in contact. We were so excited! I told him that I knew we probably wouldn’t be able to get things back how they used to be but that didn’t matter; I just wanted him in my life. So he responds, “I don’t see why we can’t, let’s try,” and so I took him up on it. He lives in Las Vegas and I live in California, but I didn’t mind the long distant, since it would allow us to take things slow. I’ve been out to visit once a month. Things were great! He would…
“Even though I’m not this huge secret because he has told his friends about me, I just feel like our boss should be aware. Should I cut my losses and MOA?”
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