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I broke up with my ex back in February. We later started seeing each other again but never rekindled our relationship. Then I found out I was pregnant in June and told him. At first he told me he wasn’t ready to be a dad, he had no intentions on fixing our relationship, and I should have an abortion. We continued to see each other for around 3-4 weeks after I told him. He then went on a date with another girl and has been seeing her ever since, and he is saying he has a 20% doubt that the baby is his, but he’s the only person I’ve had sex with….

I’m in high school and I like this gender fluid person (GFP). I’ve known them for a good three years and officially been friends with them for two years. They’re in a relationship, a tight one, and I am soooo clueless as to what to do! I definitely don’t plan to try to split them up at all, and I know, for that reason, I more than likely don’t have a chance with them. On top of that, today I found out that one of my friends likes them too, and the GFP likes them back and they used to date. So finding that out makes my chances even lower than they…

I am a 47-year-old divorced woman with an 18-year-old son. He is a high school senior and will be entering college next year. I support both of us. I have been dating “Frank,” a 51-year-old man, for 16 months. He has three children all living at home. He typically comes to my house every Friday and spends the weekends with me. His wife, the mother of his children, has been deceased two years now and Frank’s in-laws live within a block of his home. Frank’s home needs a lot of work, such as a new kitchen and windows, so I sort of understand why he hasn’t invited me to stay at his…