Shortcuts

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great that being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. I’m 25 years old, my boyfriend is 30, and we’ve been together a year and a half. Most of that time has been very happy, but I made the mistake of telling him I had a threesome before I met him and ever since then he has been harassing me. He tells me that I “have” to do this with him…

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great that being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. My girlfriend is completely blinded by her mother. She’s so far up her mom’s ass and she’s the only one who doesn’t know. All of our friends and family see it. Except her. She’s 22 and, instead of taking me, her girlfriend, to her pap smear appointment, she’s taking her mom. Her mom is a very malicious and vindictive person. She…

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great that being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. I have met a wonderful guy who, on our first date, explained to me that he was still married and had two kids by another woman. We have been together for four years now and we have a daughter together. He hasn’t been able to get a divorce yet because of financial reasons (not enough money), but they have been separated…

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It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great that being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. I am in my first year of college, and I have started dating a guy I met here. He treats me very well, and I’m happy with him. However, it makes me feel terrible to say this, but I am sorely embarrassed by him. He is very overweight, has poor personal hygiene, dresses terribly, and has numerous bad habits such as…

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great that being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. I just recently read another column of yours regarding strip clubs and boyfriends, but the girl asking the question was not that worried about her boyfriend cheating. I’m in a different situation and would like your help. I’m older than my man and currently pregnant with his baby. He likes to go to strip clubs quite often, and I absolutely hate…

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great that being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. I slept with my sister’s ex-boyfriend and it was great, but now it’s a little awkward and he still wants to remain friends, and, well, when I slept with him, it was my first time. Should I tell him it was my first time or not? I feel that, if I do, he might shut me out while, if I don’t,…

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great that being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. My boyfriend adds all these woman from different countries on Facebook. Recently, one tagged him in a porno video. Not only did he block it, but he deleted her. I wrote most of the chicks on there asking if they would delete him and they did, but he keeps adding more people he doesn’t know and it bothers me. Most of…

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great that being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go.