Updates

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Bridesmaid Times Two” whose sister asked her to be MOH in her wedding on the same day the LW was already committed to being a bridesmaid in another wedding. Find out whose wedding she’ll be attending, after the jump.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Inter-Faithed” who first wrote in asking advice about how to navigate her mixed-faith relationship (she’s Jewish, her then-boyfriend is Catholic). She updated us once before and now has as a new update.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Over the Crisis” who wrote in a couple months ago saying she was sick of her boyfriend’s ongoing existential crisis in which he seemed undecided about what to do with his life. “My opinion,” she wrote, “is that he should go a more traditional, business-minded route that I think would make him (and to be completely honest, us) the happiest and the most secure.” Keep reading to see whether he’s still undecided.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Stood Up Bride” whose aunt RSVPd for 10 people to her wedding — even though the invite was only for five — and then didn’t even show up to the wedding (nor did the other nine family members who were expected to come with her). The LW wondered how she should address the no-shows at future gatherings, including an upcoming family BBQ they were all invited to. Keep reading to see how she handled them.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Uneasy about His ‘Friend’” who was feeling apprehensive about her boyfriend’s friendship with another woman, especially since he would soon be moving to the other woman’s city for grad school. “I don’t want to tell him to not hang out with his friend,” she wrote, “but I don’t feel like this is a good friendship and I’m a bit uncomfortable. Is there a better compromise/solution to be made here?” Keep reading to see whether they found a…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Disliked By His Mom,” the teenager who wrote in last week about how her boyfriend’s mom disapproved of her. Keep reading for some clarification on her original letter and hope for the future.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Anxious About Love” who was embarrassed when she said “I love you” to her boyfriend of five months, and he responded with, “Are we there yet?” Keep reading to see whether she finally heard those three little words.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Lost My LDR” who was suspicious that his long distance girlfriend was spending so much time with a man 30 years her senior whom she said wasn’t romantically interested in her. “Am I being defensive or unreasonable if I ask that she doesn’t spend all her free time with this random guy?” Keep reading to see where things stand now over a year later.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Tired of the Betrayal” whose ex-boyfriend had recently started hooking up with her again despite being involved with a new girlfriend. She wondered why he would keep sleeping with her if he didn’t want to get back together. Keep reading to see whether she figured out the answer to that riddle.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Lied To” who discovered that her husband had been pursuing another woman. “He insists that he didn’t sleep with her,” she wrote, “and promised that he would do everything he could to get my trust back. […] Am I being a fool thinking that he will be faithful to me?” Keep reading for her update.