Crush’s best friend keeps trying to hinder my chances with him???
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I’m learning that the new way of dating is that the youths don’t go on “dates” where two people meet up. This is not the first time I’m reading about this trend. Basically, when people decide to meet up – they bring a bunch of people.
Now, I’m not sure the root cause of this – maybe it’s security for IRL but this happens with people who know one another well too. So maybe it’s social awkwardness – more people = more entertainment. Or maybe it’s FOMO or who the hell knows what. All I know is that “dating” has changed yet again.My fellow old people – a date now requires a sedan at minimum.
When I was a kid this is how it was. We’d hand out in big groups. Parents appreciated the safety in numbers thing and it was also a way of not telling your parents or maybe others exactly who you had a crush on. But- this is the crucial difference- I would not call my crush’s best girl friend to try and get her to get both of them to hang out with me, and then be mad she’s talking to me.
@LisforLeslie dw im catching up as well. Its confusing af but ig i better take notes rn so that i dont have this same lost look on my face in the future lol.
@Anonymousse ummmmm….i dont think u get what im trying to say and u know wut? Its fine. U prolly aren’t in the mood to read to read long texts so i understand why u would get everything mixed up. Take care.Hey- you said those things and they were inspcinsistent before you explained them. Oh, I’m sorry for reading and asking further questions. I will stop giving you advice. Like, WTF are you on about? It’s not a UK thing- you said all your friends are on social media and you’re not. So stop being a jerk to me. I was trying to help you and show you that lying, even stupid little lies are dumb, people notice them and they don’t appreciate it, including these new friends of yours I bet.
Enjoy the new boyfriend. Sounds like it’s going great.
I was saying that on this “adult advice site” that you think is so nice and chill, and is different Han social media? Well, there are commentators who will call you names and crap. That is what I was referring to but you wouldn’t know that because you’re 11 years old and just got internet access in the UK, so there you go. Explained.
@Anonymousse i took every advice of urs very seriously, showed gratitude and respect (more than wut u would get from some site) and yet every time i posted something u just kept pointing out “inconsistencies” and delved into details that are barely even connected (quite rudely, i must add). u even took a lighthearted joke too srsly and were just mean about the whole thing. i clarified everything in mind-numbing detail but if u want to think im a liar, then u do u. tbh im not surprised if a commentator called u the c word. ive seen so many threads where u r just going full-on Gordon Ramsay-mode and being unpleasant to people who seemed already distraught before ur bs and genuinely needed KIND advice, so id say its about damn time. idc if u think im 16 or 6 so i aint gonna sit here and try to prove my age or write an essay to u about how my family operates friggin social media. im wondering how old YOU must be if ur gonna use age as an insult. i bet ur elementary school kid is cringing rn.
just.. dont be as mean-spirited and disbelieving as u were to me to some1 who is doing way worse than i am and actually needs a few words of wisdom or kindness because ur little hobby of being a keyboard-warrior might just push that person off the edge. god forbid i have another problem cuz i dont think i can entertain ur folly again.
Let’s not do this, please. You both have made some points, but now it’s just fighting between a teen and a millennial. It’s not uncovering anything new of value.
I don’t think that I am generally known as someone who is mean spirited, insulting or generally nasty to children so I don’t think I needed that reprimand, but noted. I will step away.
And IDEK let’s put this thread to bed, you can start a new one if you need advice on something else.
