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My mom’s pipes froze too. But, luckily my bil fixed it while she was at work. It sucks! She’s in SE VA so they’re not quite as prepared for this as you guys.
I have a friend outside of Boston who teaches and she said she feels like she’s basically stopped working. I feel for you guys.
Right, so you should definitely quit your job. And then I guess start hoping he gets divorced.
I need to listen to Miss Dre. You’re right anything could happen. Like I could win the lottery tomorrow. I should definitely play tonight, anything could happen.
How is that nasty? How? We’re telling you that what you want is not a good option and you don’t want to hear it. So we gave up and said enjoy the fantasy. How is that nasty? Compared to I hope you die, choke on a dick and you are dumb as fuck. Sorry, telling you to enjoy the fantasy not nasty compared to those things.
No one was nasty though! You just didn’t like the advice being given. You can’t make people give you the advice you want to hear by reacting poorly. But, you know like Essie said the mature response is always to tell people to choke on a dick or calling them a bitch. And I’m dumb as fuck apparently so what do I know.
Maybe when in your fantasy world he decides he doesn’t love his wife and leaves her and then the next day at work sees you and has to date you, while still recovering from the divorce, perfect time to date, things will be perfect for you. Good luck with that.
The thing is Sarah B it’s sad that you didn’t want to listen to anything people said because Cleopatra and Lyra and others gave you some excellent advice on how to deal with your situation. But, since to you mean = not saying what you want to hear no one here will ever be able to be nice. But, I highly recommend you go back and read those posts that I mentioned. Maybe not today but eventually you might find them helpful.
And really telling people to die? I mean no one started off being mean here. When you stop entertaining rational conversation things fall apart like above. But, don’t tell people to choke on a dick and expect them to react kindly.
It’s a reference to a movie.
No none of us are perfect. But, we have all been in situations, some very similar, that left us with the ability to give advice. Our advice is those situations suck, don’t get yourself involved in them, find ways to move on. It’s fine if you don’t want to do that. But, the advice based on those experiences is stay away from this particular situation.
Haha wow thanks! You’re right I am dumb as fuck and a bitch, how could I ever forget that. Please go on, keep wishing this all happens.
Also, way to prove my point.
OK still he has to get a divorce (which come on is probably not going to happen, you have to deal with that) and you have to quit. Way too complicated and full of drama.
Cleopatra gave you excellent advice about ways to think about this crush and move on. You have to grow up, sorry you are sounding more and more immature the more you respond, and be willing to listen to advice. Otherwise why bother asking? Why not just go and pine away for him and hope things change and suddenly he sweeps you off of your feet?
I’m assuming you wouldn’t have asked for advice on how to move on from him if you didn’t want to. Cleopatra and Lyra and others have given great advice on that.
If the actual advice you wanted was how to make him date you, there is none, the advice is move on. Sure it’s not easy but that doesn’t mean it’s not the right thing to do.
If you didn’t work there he would still be married. And you would still be cheating.
You say you’re reading the advice and get it, but it’s not quite clicking all the way, or doesn’t seem to be.
This is not something you need to keep wondering about. What happens if he quits, what happens if you do, what happens if his marriage ends. If you actually want to move on and have relationships with available people (who are available right now, versus someone who may potentially perhaps be available in the future if x,y, and z happen) you have to work on getting him out of your mind.
So what is your question then even? How to stop thinking about him? People have given you ideas and you don’t like the advice. What did you want to hear from people?
If you know what the right thing is why write in? I mean you asked for advice and then told everyone they were wrong when you read it. And now you say you know what to do.
And sorry but keeping your heads in the cloud and responses like yours are immature. You don’t like what you’re hearing so you’re telling everyone they’re mean. Maybe try actually listening. People here aren’t assholes. They are just giving advice that you asked for.
