Cleopatra_30

I think I have heard of your code! I believe it is the ‘bro code’ Barney Stinson famously brought it to light 😛

Dude, you have made you choice to not marry, that’s all on you. Generalizing an entire gender isn’t fair. The common denominator is there looking at you in the mirror.

@TheHizzy, 3, 10, and 20. especially 3 cause it has it completely sleeveless, and just enough poof to not make it totally inconvenient on the beach

Nothing too crazy for V-Day. I spent a ‘romantic’ weekend with my BF, as we had both been travelling for a couple weeks, so wanted to spend extra time together. We made homemade pizzas and brownies (our cheat day), watched a movie and then did a workout the next morning with a good breakfast. I will probably be seeing him today before I do a late yoga class. We both signed up for a month trial, I thought he had done yoga before, so after our first class (hot vinyasa), he was dripping sweat and proclaimed he had no idea what he was doing lol Well at least he looked like he knew what he was doing 😛

Maybe I should get some good wine soon…

Calling him manfriend @veritek, is that in lieu of not having the BF/GF label yet?

Mike I think you missed the point of the advice given. I may sound like a broken record, but she wanted the LW to examine the bigger picture, she was not victim blaming. Without more context of the conversations it is hard to give more detailed advice, other than for the LW to examine what he hopes the outcome is, and why he was snooping in her phone. There is a big difference between sexual banter or dirty jokes and sexting. I have done plenty of both. Never with coworkers, which is definitely a fine line as in this letter. Which is why the LW needs to determine their motives for snooping, the purpose and outcome of a future conversation with his wife. All part of the process of having communication and transparency in a relationship, and being fair.

Also….aviaries are no fun to bang.

@copa I have to laugh at that date with the guy from Match as I had a similar experience with someone last year around this time. He kept mentioning how we have so much in common, this is so great, yadda yadda. He came off way to strong, mind you I did one more date with him as I sensed he was a little nervous, so attributed his ramblings to that? So I ended up seeing the same thing the second time around, talked about what we wanted in life and because, yes, it matched up, he came off desperate to make it sound like we were perfect for one another. He took a while to go away as he was convinced I would change my mind.

Surprisingly enough my BF has mentioned doing stuff for V-day a couple times. I asked him if that day was important to him, he said no but was thinking of things to do regardless. I actually can’t recall if we have plans for that day…We plan to do a big cheat meal the weekend after I get back from Hawaii to celebrate the “end” of my Whole 30 diet. But since VDay lands on a Wednesday not sure if we will do anything.

@jimmyjamm Hope you are happy in the new marriage!