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@kare I wonder if there are lounges or clubs you can go to that specifically deal with couples or individuals that want to explore sexual stuff like that. There is a club in Toronto that offers a whole house with various rooms, a pool, and spa and they open it up so people can use the spaces on their own, or explore other sexual things. They have events each week for workshops and sometimes for people to take the floor and perform acts. Maybe that is an option you and your FWB can look at to find someone?

I am waiting to hear back on my internship in Alberta, I had a phone interview on Friday, and they said they would contact me this week, so keeping my fingers crossed! If it works out then I can save up more for a trip at the end of the year, also looking at Hawaii as an option, especially now that I have my new passport.

I closed my OKcupid account the other week, as I have settled with Slogan guy and not making much effort elsewhere. Especially with this Alberta opportunity. So far enjoying my time with him and am happy 🙂

@Sarah you do realize you have the ability to NOT respond to any of the comments right? I mean half the time we try to divert the conversation and you just bring it back by engaging with the sarcastic comments. You are single handedly feeding the fire!

EDIT: I know she is probably a troll but oh my goodness…

My evening went well! I stayed overnight with Slogan Guy, we watched the new Walking Dead mid season premier, which was awesome! Had some fun times in bed. He got me a heart shaped box filled with mini Mars Bars, my fav, and a single rose. Totally unnecessary, but it was really sweet 🙂 I got him his Nutella and fruit, although we didn’t get a chance to dig into it.

Today he made pancakes for us, then we went to see the Deadpool movie, which was hilarious and crazy as expected. Afterwards we went to a local sandwich restaurant for a late lunch with two of his friends who also joined us for the movie. Then spent several hours back at his place finishing a movie we began the night before, and fooling around 😉

OOOh! Iceland! That is going to be so much fun 😀 I have heard great things about it, so much geological history there 🙂

I am trying to watch my money for the next while so I can save up for a trip in the Fall for my 25th Birthday. I am hoping to go to Hawaii 🙂 I have gone over my weekly budget twice now, so I just need to make sure I prioritize.

I don’t have serious plans per-say for V-day. I am sleeping over with Slogan guy on V-day because we are seeing the Deadpool movie the following Monday with a bunch of his friends around noon. So we figured it’s an excuse to sleepover and have some fun 😉 We are going to watch the new Walking Dead that night, and then I am surprising him by buying a jar of nutella and some fruit so we can dip them in it. He has never had Nutella before so I am going to introduce him to it 😛

I ended up being ghosted by Pilot Guy, who I liked personality wise, but couldn’t figure out chemistry. I sent him what I though was an innocent text asking what his intentions were with me so that we were on the same page, since I really wasn’t sure if he wanted to ‘date’ me or just ‘hang out’ with me as it seemed to be the last couple times. Then I never heard from him! So kind of sad because he checked off a bunch of things I look for in a guy, but I guess the lack of chemistry kind of doomed it.

I do have a new date this Saturday. Kind of hopeful, the guy moved to Canada when he was 12 years old from Romania. He likes the outdoors, seems to be pretty athletic and has a good sense of humour and we flirted a bit already. So we shall see!

Aaaaaand on another note, dating related, just got back from a bouldering “date” with Pilot guy. This is our second date, and it went really well! He was impressed by my beginner bouldering skills, so very flattered coming from someone who is just past beginner compared to me. We talked a lot, then went to Starbucks for drinks and a snack. And talked for another 2 hours. Honestly I enjoyed my time and I do like him, he possesses a lot of qualities, both interests and physically wise, that I like. But there wasn’t any flirting or obvious chemistry. I might ask him what he hopes to come of this, as it’s been two dates and I don’t really know… We didn’t talk while he was away in Winnipeg for a week. So aside from previous conversations before we didn’t build much up to this date. I think once I ask or poke at what he wants and how he feels we can gauge it and maybe get somewhere with the chemistry if he wants to. It seems weird to initiate it that way, but that tends to work for me, once we flush out our, hopefully, mutual interest things go from there.

And then on Tuesday I had my 6th (?) date with Slogan guy, we did a couple hours of pool then went back to his place and put some TV on for background and then had some fun 😉 No sex yet, as I told him it has been barely a month and I am not ready to move to that point in our dating yet. But the chemistry is still really good between us.

@LadyE oooh! LA! Hope you have fun and the weather is nice 🙂

@MissDre well I guess it depends of people’s preferences. There are a lot of guys out there, but it’s who you like and find attractive. Probably doesn’t help that half of them don’t bother to fill in their profile or give enough info to go off of. That is my experience at least. Took me a while to scroll through pages of profiles before I found a few I liked. Took some chances on a few as well that I normally wouldn’t have gone for, maybe try that?

@kare I am dating to see what is out there short term. I have some things that need to sort them selves out first job wise before I can commit to a relationship that is serious and long term. But figured I have time, I am interested in dating a bit, so why not?