Cleopatra_30
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I decided yesterday that whatever my plans are for Halloween (still up in the air right now) I am gonna dress up! I changed my mind and want to do Cleopatra/Egyptian Queen costume. Since I have tomorrow off for work I am gonna roam around second hand shops and hopefully gather supplies!
Gah. All these new posters have me so skeptical now. It is beyond ridiculous! I want to believe SOME of them, but the majority seem totally fake. So sad 🙁
Especially when we are getting so many “new” posters each day, the traffic is a little too high from what I have seen in the past few years.
Well I have used toys in the bedroom, and I personally own a vibrator, which is great for myself, but not so much for any guy I use it with. If you get a toy that helps stimulate both you and your bf maybe he would be more into it? Or go to a sex shop or look online together and see if you can find some things that you can both enjoy? Cock rings can be fun for both if you get a good quality one.
Hmmmm making me worried now! I will probably go to the doctors then within the next week or two and ask about it. I am being paid well now, but will be starting my loan payments come Nov 30th. So sooner rather than later I suppose. And it is every 6 months, so hopefully by my next shot I will have the cash if I can arrange a payment system.
I have been told numerous times to get the HPV vaccine from doctors (not cause I am a crazy sex person) but because I am young, and having sex (monogamous). I just cringe at the cost though! Here in Canada it is 3 shots at $170 I think…or something ridiculous. I don’t have a ton of cash and I don’t have health insurance anymore, so it doesn’t cover it. I think once I get a big girl job I will use the insurance through that and get it done.
@kare honestly better to be out right about it then beat around the bush. It was a traumatic experience and people joking about it when it clearly isn’t something funny needs to be addressed. I think you addressed the situation well 🙂 Albeit blunt, that needed to happen!
I won’t be able to see my FWB till next week unfortunately. He had to cancel our date last week due to work being crazy, he had a huge project at work to prepare for with his coworkers. And then he is gone to Florida all this week! And I suspect by the time he gets back next week I will be on my period and won’t be able to have sexy times. Oh the humanity! haha
@veritek33 that sounds like a wicked weekend! So glad it went well 😀
I went out with an Italian once for a couple dates, he totally played it up and texted me sweet nothings in Italian, it was funny and cute at the time 😛
@Kare holy jealous! Man I hope my FWB sex is good! haha I am seeing him tomorrow evening. Although no details yet on what time and where, he is really busy apparently with a huge project. So I am hoping we will get a decent amount of time in 😉
@Lianne I am not looking for a ltr right now. I am definitely in the mind set of casual, fun and non-committed. So although I am “dating” these guys a lot of stuff is missing and or rushed. Like the physical intimacy is developed much quicker then when I am seriously dating. And although it is a FWB, I probably wouldn’t date them seriously for a variety of reasons. I am a little less picky right now then when I am dating.
I don’t see anything more serious happening between the final man that I have my FWB with. I am looking specifically for a monogamous FWB right now, and some might say ‘oh that sounds like a relationship.’ But in my mind it isn’t because the emotional connection has not been or will intentionally be developed by me or the partner. If it happens I would have to see how I feel and whether I am ready to seriously date, and whether I even like that person enough or see something developing.
And my potential FWB is also really open, hello kinky! So gonna be checking some things off my sex list too haha
Hmmm ya depending on how long this FWB goes, idk if I would ever introduce him to my friends… is that normal? Or just personal preference? I would be going to see him mostly since he has his own place, and more private then my room at home. My friends know about him, but can’t see me bringing him into my friend activities. And not sure what I would do if he ever invited me out to hang with his friends…But I think I am getting ahead of myself!
I agree, enjoying the single life, especially now that I have carefree sex on the docket 😉
Also reviewing haunted houses? Saweet! I have always wanted to check out a haunted house 😛
Ya the whole innocent thing makes me feel weird sometimes. But whatever, I think guys get off with that thinking, the sweet innocent girl (another thing…I am 24, a WOMAN) and gonna make her dirty.
Buuuut I did my second date last night. And it went really well! 6’2 with a gorgeous red beard. And we grabbed a hot drink and walked along the waterfront for a bit before settling down on a secluded bench. We talked mostly about where we were from, school all that basic stuff. Then when alone we talked about our expectations, what we were okay with tonight (we sexted a bunch proceeding the meetup). And went from there! Snuck into a dark part of the waterfront bushed and made out, great kisser, finally! And then went to his car and drove to a dark parking lot and had some safe fun 😉
I am pretty sure he is the guy I am gonna do my FWB with. I felt so comfortable and at ease with him, and we have a similar view on sex and what we like. And he is so easy to talk to. He also likes cuddling, so bonus! He also felt the same, I am the first person he has met up with through OkCupid. And he liked that he got a good feeling from and about me while we texted. So it seems we are both very interested and on the same page with a monogamous FWB situation! Success!
