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@Amber are you the LW whose husband was spending a lot of time with a female coworker and had cheated on you in the past? That person also mentioned they’d have to start all over and find a new job… If it’s you the advice is still the same DIVORCE.
@Amber, did i miss where you told us what the issue is?
I guess regardless of the issue, you’ve stated that you want a child soon but can’t see yourself having a child with him and while this vague issue still exists, if you really want to have a child in the near future than you should divorce asap so you have time to find someone else.
Just a comment on the HPV. @Ale if you haven’t already you should watch Ali Wong’s first Netflix special Baby Cobra. She has a small bit about HPV, about how everyone has it and if you don’t have it you’re gonna get it. She’s hilarious.
Do you know they don’t even test men for HPV unless requested? She mentions that too, how it’s a ghost or something that comes out of the man and says BOO! I don’t remember it exactly but super recommend and hopefully makes you feel a bit better.
Aww Vertiek i’m glad your holiday went well. MoV sounds flipping adorable.
@Lana pot is not known as an addictive substance and IS known to help with some mental health issues, just an fyi. Since your son is struggling it might be best for him to consider community college if he’d like to finish at the least an associates degree, or a trade school.
Oh Cleo what an awkward few days it’s going to be but then it’ll be over and you’ll feel so much relief. It would probably be nice to bring him a cupcake or something on his birthday but i understand if that’s also too weird.
@Copa thank you for the advice. I know i can’t weed out all the bad dates, i just think i need to be better about asking more information giving questions before meeting.
Dating question. I took a bit of a break and focused on life and had a fwb. Now fwb is moving and i figure it’s time to get back in the game and find a relationship with a future (which i want). I know that when dating via apps you don’t want to text forever and then meet, that you want to meet pretty early on. My question is, what questions are you asking via text to make sure this date is worth your time?
I feel like i waste time with the polite pleasantries (how was your day/weekend etc.) and have ended up on a dates not worth my time. Ex: with a man who was recently separated with 5 children which was a waste of my time, as if this had been listed i wouldn’t have gone out with him.
@Ale, i’m glad you’ve since blocked him on everything! That’s a lot of emotional manipulation he pulled and i really hope you never give him the chance to talk about things again.
Ver you’re soooooooo great and recognizing when you need assistance it’s something i really admire. I hope the therapy appointment tomorrow helps calm your anxiety. While i was one of the ones that thought setting up your wedding for two months before hers wasn’t very nice, i’m also 100% on team Ver because of how ridiculously mean she was!
I hope you get a lot of time hugging your pup. 12, while possibly average for his breed/size is still too young.
Veritek i’m so sorry. You responded so openly to the criticsm you received here regarding having your wedding two months before hers and then she can’t be reasonable about anything. Complained you stepped on her engagement by getting engaged SIX MONTHS after her! Apparently she is the type that wants the entire year(s) to herself.
Do you. Whatever you want. I’m also glad that you and fiance are going to get some premarital counseling and hopefully he’ll get the tools he needs to better respond to his family because i agree freezing up and making you respond to it all isn’t fair.
I agree with BGM and Wendy. It’s not the nicest move to put your wedding two months before hers. I think you know this, but you’re bitter that MoV held off on the engagement because of SIL’s feelings so you don’t care.
If your brunch place has an availability in the fall, AND if you haven’t sent out Save the Dates AND if you won’t lose your deposit i really think you both should consider moving the date.
There’s nothing here to propose that SIL would be upset that your wedding is happening six months ahead of hers like you suggest she would be. Wendy and BGM have already stated why two months seems too close. If anyone gets upset at October you state you want to get the family making happening. 😉 Honor your grandparents by helping celebrate their anniversary on the actual date rather than wanting them to celebrate by celebrating you.
