Bethany

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  • January 21, 2021 at 9:23 am #1009195

    LadyE I’m so sorry you are struggling. These last few months with less daylight have been really hard for my husband and me. I had to up my depression medication and I do feel better.

    I’m so glad that yesterday was soooooooooo predictable and straight up almost a typical DC event – BORING. In the DC metro area we were really worried about something crazy happening that most people worked from home Tuesday.

    I work in a high school (our district is still 100% virtual) but last week we had a positive Covid case who came on campus, but the health department never contacted me – so I guess I’m okay? Although today my boss (the principal of the high school) said she won’t be in today or tomorrow because her partner was in close contact with two epi-linked cases at his work. So I guess she’ll be in Monday if her partner shows no symptoms, but he is being required to quarantine for two weeks and not her? It is all so messed up right now and everyone is taking so many risks to make sure they get a paycheck.

    July 27, 2020 at 1:40 pm #907857

    @anonymousse funding for public schools is based on enrollment and the official count that goes to the state (at least in Virginia) is 20 school days after the 1st day of school. So as long as your child is enrolled at school whether distance or in-person, the school will still receive their per-pupil funding for your child. I can tell you from working in a school there is no way that attendance in person will not be harmful in some way either physically or mentally. School is fundamentally changed for the moment. When my school was going to do in-person instruction students were pretty much expected to sit in their seats for their entire class period and stay looking forward and this high school. I have no idea what elementary will look like but it won’t be as fun as it was in the past. I can’t believe that requiring students to sit for hours on end in their chair won’t be harmful in some way either or that teachers will be able to do it.

    The country is in such a horrible situation and children need to be in school, but I just don’t see how they will be able to stay open. This is such an impossible situation and everyone is suffering for the absolutely horrible lack federal coordination.

    July 21, 2020 at 10:15 am #902903

    @CanadaGoose, I want to have faith that the US will rise above this current political climate but it just feels so hopeless. We are still holding out hope that a medical position in New Zealand may come through, although if I was them I wouldn’t want to bring anyone from the US over! I have been trying to get my husband to emigrate for years and just in the last six months, he has become more amenable.

    My husband seems to feel that Biden will get elected and things will start to calm down – but I am just not so sure. Trump is erratic, at best, and his base is too. I am related to a lot of his base and they still think the Pandemic is a hoax and that we can easily open up schools like Denmark, Germany, and New Zealand. I don’t even engage and in fact, I’ve decided I don’t need to interact with these people, if I ever get to travel to my hometown again. I know this reaction is not helpful to the situation but I can’t forgive these people for being one-issue voters (abortion and guns) and their unwillingness to just sit and listen. I totally get where some of Trump’s base is coming from but the fact that they still hang onto him, even when his actions have hurt them – I can’t with them anymore.

    My biggest fear is the election results in November – whatever way it goes. Fingers crossed there isn’t any violence, but lately, I’ve been feeling there will be.

    July 20, 2020 at 9:22 am #902256

    I’m over this herd immunity nonsense. In one breath the herd immunity group talks about COVID as no worse than the flu and then the next they say they most likely won’t get a vaccination if it is available. I can’t with them…they argue with my husband and tell us we are getting paid by Big Pharma to push vaccines. My response is always “I’m still waiting on that big Pharma check.”

    The SRO, aka the cop posted at our school, doesn’t want to wear a mask and spouts nonsense that Sweden is doing just fine with their approach to the Coronavirus. I looked at him and just lost my mind and walked away. He hasn’t come back to the school since the principal told him he has to wear it while inside the school. So there you go with opening our schools back up.

    July 17, 2020 at 8:52 am #900774

    @Kate you are so right. Also at the end of this month, the extra 600 unemployment is going to run out. People are legitimately unable to find jobs at the moment or they were using the funds to supplement their income because their pay was cut (like my family). We have some savings but it can only last for so long and this is going to take years to straighten out. We have had discussions of sending our 3 year old to go and live with my parents 12 hours away or my mother-in-law who is 6 hours away because at some point my husband and I will need to be back at work (in person) full time. We have her on a list at her old school, but they are only allowing 22 students in the class at this time and probably for the rest of the year. We started calling around but it is the same situation other places. If my husband and I are struggling and we have resources available to us – how are others who don’t? The expectations businesses and the executive level government have for US citizens are insane!

    July 17, 2020 at 8:19 am #900765

    I don’t know, things are starting to fray in the county I live in. While I live in a county that has a large white-collar workforce that can and is still working from home, the chatter is getting more ominous. A lot of the chatter is concerns over furloughs and layoffs in Sept and Oct and these are attorneys, biologist, network security professionals. A good portion have had their salaries reduced and in our area mortgages are HUGE. My husband is/was a hunter before I met him, so we still have a lot of his rifles, and even he is expressing the same fears that Helen’s husband is. My husband is a scientist and understands a lot of the information the medical community is putting out and just is amazed at the complete inaction of the country as a whole. I work in a public HS and that is getting batshit crazy. We are interviewing for a front-office position and we specifically picked a person who currently works in a dentist office because they would be comfortable wearing PPE all day. LET THAT SINK IN. Also, that person would be the one responsible for taking temperatures of late arrivals (which there are a lot of in HS). The complete inaction of the federal government is leading up to some major social upheaval and unrest. I don’t know what form that is going to take but it is definitely happening now and will continue to happen until something changes, what that is I don’t know.

    July 9, 2020 at 12:56 pm #894145

    UGH…my brother-in-law is still planning to fly to Vegas on July 9 to break up with his ex-girlfriend in person (don’t ask – I don’t get why breaking up in your twenties has to be so hard). My other brother-in-law went to eat with a group of coworkers on patio and had a near covid experience and had to quarantine until he got his negative results. Those two yahoos confirm that we will continue keeping our actions small and not taking too big of risks.

    July 7, 2020 at 12:56 pm #893071

    @Bittergaymark, agreed… sigh….

    July 7, 2020 at 10:32 am #892982

    Oh and Bolsonaro just tested positive – why is it skipping Pence and Trump?

    July 7, 2020 at 10:18 am #892970

    @Fyodor I’m sorry for your loss and I am sorry that you aren’t able to grieve with your loved ones like you should be able to.

    For the other parents, our school district (who I work for at an HS) is allowing parents to choose virtual or hybrid (in school 2 days a week) but the decision is binding for the entire school year and the decision has to be made by July 10. As you can imagine this has caused such an uproar with parents and students – not to mention the staff. I do not have a school-aged child yet (she’ll be 4 in August) but if we did I think my husband and I would choose virtual because it is the safest option at the moment, especially after seeing pictures of all the crowds at beaches this past weekend. Some of my husband’s friends are asking him what he would choose (he is an MD) and he tells him that his office is trying to hold out until January to start seeing patients in person. I also just received (like yesterday July 6) an email saying that we will be doing a version of teleworking/going into the school beginning July 13. Also that we will be allowing visitors (ie parents) in by appointment only.

    I knew this was going to have to happen but it feels like a complete disregard to the adults at the schools. Some of us aren’t teachers/principals and we are not being given choices by district leadership on requesting new schedules. We don’t even have the choice of teleworking. I am somewhat protected as I am the Principals admin and back in the corner, but there are so many others that aren’t. Also, there is no communication about what is going to happen when someone gets sick (either covid or regular school sick). We’re told to stay home if we are sick, but most staff don’t have enough leave to cover it.

    Also, there is the childcare issue. My daughter’s daycare is open, but limited to 12 people in a classroom, including the teacher. How are we suppose to arrange daycare when my husband is back seeing patients in person? And what will the cost be?

    I keep telling my husband you can tell the generations that never truly worried about contracting HIV/AIDs or other STIs because they don’t get the idea of the chain of transmission. It is all utterly exhausting and at this point, I am praying for the aliens to invade AND DO something. Obviously the US can’t fix itself at this point.

    May 8, 2020 at 12:50 pm #885607

    So does anybody else believe the good people at Roche are going to rake in money with this pandemic? It seems that all the tests manufactured by Roche are the most reliable and that in turn means more demand for their tests and equipment?

    I really wish I had paid better attention during my science classes.