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@Copa, I can imagine that would be an adjustment. Although I am not quarantining with my boyfriend, I find I am going through e.g., pb and jam a lot faster than I would’ve, since my bf likes pb and jam… I’m totally fine with it and it’s not like he’s eating all of it but just kind of have to keep track. He brings over food to cook too while we stay in on the weekends so that’s nice too.
I also hope everyone who is feeling sick feels better soon.
Reading the posts a few pages back —- yes, I just want to hug my family. I am grateful that I do have physical contact with someone. But I miss hugging my mom and my niece. I have seen them at a physically safe distance too, which I’m grateful for as well.
Hope you take care, Helen.
@Copa, I’ve spoken with some other people and I think this week has been tough for people too, me included.
My aunt was admitted to the hospital a couple weeks ago, non-COVID related. She’s not going to make it. I feel so much for my uncle and cousin. They were fortunately able to see her tonight and could video-call in my dad and his siblings. It is such a sad, sad time.
Aw that is a very cute date LadyE!I’m so glad you could see each other in person.
I’ve been going make up free except for work calls. I can’t say my skin is a lot better but I can’t really justify using it. Maybe some concealer under my eyes! Haven’t been sleeping the best, ugh.
A “nice” thing that has come out from quarantine. If we are feeling uninspired, but my boyfriend will eat my weirdo put together lunches if I were by myself, e.g., salad and a protein leftover/eggs/hummus. I still like to “feed him well” when he’s here even though he’s barely a guest. I mean have relatively normal meals — we cook together for the most part so I don’t mean I am cooking for him haha. Still this quarantine has created some interesting meals and he’s been cool with it.
I haven’t had much to contribute to this thread. Just wanted to let you know that an internet stranger is thinking about you all especially those who have been sick or who have family or knows someone who is sick.
I am grateful that our premier (I guess the equivalent of governor) is being a leader, even though I thought he was Donald Trump light before. I’m still disheartened that our numbers are still going up. Innocent question, does your “shelter in place” or stay at home order mean you are not allowed to be outside at all other than for groceries or pharmacies (i.e., “shutdown”?), e.g., you’d need a special essential worker permit in your car (though I realize many of you are in cities) if you were on the road?
On a lighter note I caught up on your that John Frieda brush. I’ve had the Revlon one for three years in May! I still like it. I’d love to try the new brush because Kate’s beauty recommendations are rarely wrong. But I’ve had a pay cut at work, and I feel bad about non essential purchases, even take out and supporting local businesses, or silly things like puzzles (!). I am fortunate because I do have savings and I can work from home still. Work initially cut pay even more then raised it which was good, but it’s just in the back of my mind. There’s so much uncertainty. I don’t know what’s going to happen next month.
A couple different extended family members have been admitted to the hospital for non COVID reasons. It’s just so sad all of it, that immediate family can’t visit (rightly, but still).
I’m glad your SIL is getting better, veritek. I also feel for everyone who is rescheduling weddings because of this. So much uncertainty on timing like e.g., July weddings. I’m also thinking about my cousin’s wedding in October. She’s in Hong Kong. I was going to go. It’s a fair bit of time away but who knows.
Seeing your timeline like that copa, it does seem to be working out. Glad your dog got approved!
My boyfriend and I are not quarantining with each other. We only go out for groceries. I know there is a risk but I guess we are just hoping. There is not a strict shelter in place so we can still drive to each other’s places. If there is, I’ve told him he could live at my place because it is larger; however he’d have to to bring a desk and set up in my bedroom. We have been spending the weekends at my place not going anywhere.
Stay strong everyone.
Happy wedding Ver! Wishing you joy. I’m sorry it wasn’t the one you planned but I’m glad you got your family together. I hope you can celebrate the way you wanted to soon.
Almost 1000 pages and 5 years later I almost feel like this is a good bookend to this thread!
Got back from vacay with my bf and his friends! I was a bit nervous since I didn’t know his friends too well but it was a great group. My bf moved away from his hometown while they’re mostly still there so I haven’t had a chance to get to know them until now. My bf is a groomsman for one of his friends this summer so it was fun talking about that.
My boyfriend and I definitely got to know each other.. as in resort food and stomach stuff and close quarters in the room. My boyfriend has Crohn’s. It is mild but he has the occasional flare up. I do wish there was more certainty in the future but until then hopefully his diet can prevent flare ups. I do understand him more after the resort.
A guy emailed me from my professional development club asking to meet to discuss “what I have been working on” over coffee or beer. I really hate that I don’t know if this is just club related or more. To be honest I don’t really want to go aside from that not knowing if it’s more because I am sort of busy this month. But maybe it’s good networking especially if it’s just related to the club.
Beautiful Ver!
Ok well it’s a little hard without making you reveal too much of where you are going in terms of restaurants etc, but if you are going to Niagara Falls, the area Niagara-on-the-Lake is our wine destination! You will need a car and it’s still 30-45 min from the Falls but it’s really lovely.
I can’t believe your wedding is so soon Ver! Yay!
My boyfriend and I aren’t big into Valentine’s either (general theme here). However he is away for work and then next week we are going on vacation, so we “celebrated“ two weeks ago. We went out for dinner. I also baked him some cookies. We exchanged cards before he left and will open them on FaceTime Friday night. I am glad that I told him I’d be giving him a card before he left. Maybe he would have done the same but this way I wasn’t mildly disappointed!
I guess though with him away for work a bunch I sometimes do feel lonely and I feel like I’m not being a whole person with my own life. Don’t get me wrong, I still meet up with friends. I also get a lot of stuff done at my place when he’s away haha. Just with the long weekend this week I wish he were here so we could do something (but vacation will be fun!). Maybe I’ll shoot a friend to get together. But I also feel guilty I’m doing this specifically when he’s away and that I’m not a good friend (also not true).
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