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Ooh congrats on grad school @Cleo!! Same field?
I mean part of why I don’t know how much he makes is because I’m just ignorant on his field. And I could google for a range (which I already suspect) but then I’d feel weird and I might as well ask. I also am concerned that he thinks I make more than I do not that this has ever come up and I don’t give any false impressions intentionally.
Yeah as I was typing the debt part I realized how silly that was. So I will leave it at that.
I’ve realized and maybe I’m embarrassed that I have no idea what my boyfriend makes. He doesn’t know, or at least I’ve never told him, mine. I think we are comparable. I think his bonus is higher than mine. We know how much vacation we have. Based on lifestyle I don’t think he has debt (I realize that sounds naive but just the sense I have). I guess part of this is while I’m more sure on this relationship than say four or six months ago, I don’t know if he’s my forever person. And money talks make things a lot more serious, perhaps.
That is exciting you are trying Tinder, Ale!! Wishing you the best.
Sounds like a fun date Copa. It’s hard to believe she is better when he sounds like a dud.
This is OT, but you know how Copa’s ex’s wife (?) sometimes views Copa’s insta stories? Well this acquaintance from high school was on my “people you may know” list. I clicked her username just to see her profile (I don’t really mind that Instagram algorithm info whatever) but my fat fingers accidentally pressed her Insta stories circle! So now she probably thinks I’m creeping her, which a little bit, but not really at all!! Ugh, haha.
@shakeourtree, I am sorry for your loss.
Three years ago I got called to the bar, searched/started a new job where I am still, started seriously online dating, and the Blue Jays were having a really hot summer! It’s been amazing reading about everyone’s experiences.
I have thought about this too. The last time I might have been infatuated was university. That passing by him in the hallway or just being super aware of his presence. A real crush. After that I didn’t meet people in real life who I was interested in so I can’t say for sure. With OLD it’s such a short initial meeting that it’s hard to develop that infatuation in your head I guess.
Mmm ktfran you put wanting pets as a major thing. I’m pretty sure, no, I know, my bf wants a dog. And I’m pretty sure I do not. I’ve put off thinking about this/didn’t think it was worth making it a dealbreaker and we are not at the stage of moving in or anything. I guess “secretly” I am hoping he will drop the idea, which I know is bad!! Just like kids, you can’t expect someone to change their mind! Are pets a really big deal?
I’m excited about Bumble guy too Copa. And while Hamilton tickets might be a bit much, I think it’s just a boyish excitement thing.
That is an incredible dress, Hizzy! I like how it’s structured and flowy!
Hmmm, I feel the same way as you LadyE but I think it’s worth one date out to see.
My boyfriend has been in Europe on vacation for the last two weeks. I really can’t wait to see him when he gets back this week. I think it’s been the longest we haven’t seen each other. When he’s gone for work he still comes back on a Friday/leaves Sunday. I know there are a couple ldrs here so I feel a bit silly saying that. He asked me I think in February/March if I’d be interested in going with him and I wasn’t quite ready at that time but I of course told him to go. I think it worked out since we are doing a big family reunion trip in the fall. But I am so jealous of his pictures!!
Yet! Jk jk. Gotcha. That’s fantastic.
A blogger I follow had an Insta story that she and a guy matched on an app. They set up a meeting, then exchanged numbers and when he put it in his phone they realized they went out on one date four years ago but neither of them remember!! ? he ended up cancelling their meeting. I feel like people change in four years.. idk, what do you guys think?
That’s lovely copa! What do you mean you’re not in a rush to figure out how you feel? Because neither of you are traveling soon so there’s less pressure?
Also yay to neighbor moving, hah.
Aw that is freaking wonderful.
Time does fly. My friend got engaged after dating her man for three years. I think this is my first friend getting married from whom I’ve heard about the guy from date 1 (aside from all y’all ;)). So the passage of time is really hitting.
Oh damn congrats MissD! Remind me…how did you guys meet originally? He’s Canadian too but knew he was moving to the UK for work? Ah, so excited for you!!
Point taken, lol.
