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@ktfran I have always wanted to try it but just haven’t. I think it is a great idea I will look into though especially with the increased issues lately. Considering what I spend on copays, meds, and topical remedies I think the price would be well worth it.
I like to do a slow roll almost falling onto the floor to get out of bed haha. I truly worry about it later. I have pretty bad arthritis in my hips and knees from breaking my femur 20 years ago. It really messes up your body to break the largest bone in your body. Currently dealing with insane hip pain and now my back. Oh the fun. One day I even get a knee and hip replacement. I am only 36 so I see a long painful future. FU to the asshole who ran me over because he didn’t want to be late to work. I hope his back hurts every day.
Yoga really helps a lot but being off balance, which cannot change, just screws it all up. I used to use muscle relaxers and occasionally pain meds but all that did was put me to sleep so it really wasn’t something I could continue. Now I just deal with it but it really is getting worse lately. Luckily I have new insurance (husbands) that really is great so I am taking advantage of that and doing as much as I can to treat it as much as possible.
Eh, I don’t buy it. She is covering her butt to make herself look better, which sadly just made her look far worse.
@copa it is so good to date someone who calms you. I didn’t realize truly how calm my husband made me until I sort of just “lightbulb” realized it one day. I was around my ex after some time of being with my husband and just thought no way I’d ever be with someone who didn’t keep me calm again. I am very happy for you that you feel relaxed and at ease around him.
Fun fact of the day, I pulled my back this morning BAD. I am walking like a hunch back but did get some meds from the Dr. but haven’t drugged up yet as it is going to knock me out. I have had back pain before but this is so far beyond anything I have ever experienced. Shoveling snow for two hours yesterday I am sure contributed.
Agree with above. You write this romance novel then when people say “hey this isn’t right” you validate how no no no you would never. If you want advice you give the full truth the first time. You may be telling yourself the right thing but your letter does not indicate that.
OH ya by the way, if I was rushing out the door and my non working partner was mad I wouldn’t take the dog out because they wanted to lie in bed, I’d be pretty ticked myself and likely would say “uh ya I can’t do that because I am working”. If you in turn gave me attitude for that you’d see some problems in our relationship. I wake up a half hour before my husband ever day, make him coffee, pack his lunch, take the dogs out….you know, since I am not working. Once in a while if I sleep poorly or am sick he tells me to sleep in and does it for me and on the weekend he usually wakes up first to make me coffee….because he appreciates that I do so much without bitching that I would prefer to sleep every other day.
Maybe it’s a man thing. All the men I know are always very clean. My husband is beyond most people. Arguing with a near adult over showering is enough to make me lose my mind. Like WHYYYYY would someone need to TELL you to do that at this age. WHYYYY is this even worthy of an argument. Good lord. Told him next time I’ll take him outside and hose him down, and it’s snowing now. Of course I wouldn’t do that but his face was priceless.
@Ange. Good on the waking up a bit earlier for time to yourself. I find this changes my whole day. I cannot feel great just jumping out of bed, rushing to get ready then bolting out the door. I wake up a half hour before my husband and he knows that basically my time, also I don’t speak when I wake up, I am a grumpy morning person. I wake up, make him and myself coffee, get his lunch ready to go, enjoy my coffee, read the news, then get my butt in gear. It really helps me to feel calmer throughout the whole day.
Ya you are right, they are wrong. No choice but to bring their children? Ya you have a choice but are actually choosing what you want over what your hosts are asking. They suck.
