Kate
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I’m really skeptical that you could be with a guy who would plot against you that maliciously and not realize something is incredibly wrong. But people do get really caught up in planning a wedding and kind of get tunnel vision.
But… why did he go through with the wedding and go on the honeymoon for two days? Why wouldn’t he just break it off beforehand?
Yeah, we had this weird round comb when I was little, that had blades in it like that. It was for people, but not sure if it was my dad’s or mom’s or whose… I definitely combed my hair with it at least once and ripped/cut some off. Pretty sure no one cared.
I wouldn’t use “felt compelled to kiss him” as a gauge of second date or not, but if you were really bored and felt no interest at all, then nah.
She won’t sue.
Jesus, even if it was one of those razor combs for people, and it’s in your bathroom and she uses it without asking (or even being invited over), she’s a moron and i don’t see how you could be considered liable.
Yeah no. You were nice to offer a haircut but now it’s off. Forget it. She’s insane. She can’t sue you.
Maybe also have a talk with your husband about better communication re: who is coming over and when.
That sounds okay. I was going to say, if it’s for a talent show or something in downtime, that’s different. And those jokes sound safe.
I feel like, it’s good for women to have a sense of humor at work, but that unfortunately, *being funny* doesn’t help women at work and may actually hurt. It sounds like you’re being smart though.
I said I could see writing it down and not being interested in the person as more than a friend. But yeah, if he comes, that gives you a chance to interact outside of work and see how things go.
Also, TheLadyE, unsolicited advice, but I’d be a little careful how much you incorporate your comedy at work. Totally fine for people to know you do stand-up as a side interest on weekends. I think I’d draw the line at trying out jokes at work though. I would not recommend working routines into presentations. Just my two cents! Certainly there’s room for jokes at work and having fun, but comedy that’s, for example, self-deprecating, or about anything remotely political (feminism, whatever), could resonate in ways you don’t intend.
Yeah, see if he actually comes. That’s step 1.
He certainly could be interested, but he also could be a people pleaser type. I can see writing down the date of a co-worker’s performance they told me about and not being interested in them.
ETA, I’m not a people pleaser, obviously. But maybe I’d be being polite, or maybe I’d think I’d enjoy the show or it could be a drinking opportunity with other co-workers or something. Or maybe I’d want to make out with them, idk.
Thinking nothing of it, lol!!!
Nothing is wrong with you! A lot of people jump right into dating sites after a breakup or divorce, before they’re anywhere near ready to date, and they waste other people’s time.
What? I’m not saying it’s comparable. Just disagreeing with the statement that people always like who they’re dating.
