Kate
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Bye loser.
Go input a cactus up your ass.
Jesus wept.
Yup. 100. I guess what took it a little further for me was his instruction to tell the other guy she doesn’t want anything serious with him either. That’s controlling.
What’s your take on it, Wendy? I’m feeling toxic masculinity.
Cuddle buddies was good, whoever said that.
wow.
No, that’s not in any way an acceptable thing to say. To someone you were never dating.
You actually just gave me the heebie-jeebies, like chills up the spine, with that, “then tell him you don’t anything serious” remark. Truly. I’m seeing the problem here. That was… no.
I’m out.
“Also since i know she has contact with another guy. I said to her: then tell him you’re not looking for anything serious either then, her response made it clear she wasn’t being truthful with what she said before.”
Ooooh, that is really crossing a line. Don’t do that. That was bad.
She was really clear with you, and you’re not being fair to her.
Do what you feel you must, but it’s disrespectful, counterproductive, impolite, selfish, etc.
If anything, you’d be labeled creepy and “can’t take no for an answer.”
I’m with you, Hans, there was initial interest, but it’s gone. Asking for honesty is, honestly, rude. For one, she’s already BEEN honest enough with you, that she doesn’t feel anything for you. That’s more than a sufficient explanation, so asking her for honesty that she’s already given you takes away from the fact that she was good and up-front about it already. It also puts her in an awkward spot of having to make up more shit to salve your feelings, when it’s just that she’s not into you. It’s unfair, pushy, and, again, rude.
