Kate
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I don’t think it’s abusive if the costume is similar to a jacket or coat or sweater, and the dog doesn’t mind wearing a coat. Some do, some don’t.
And yeah, that sounds highly suspect. If I were her, I would absolutely not go anywhere not public with him. She should not bring him home!!!
I just got my dog a faux shearling coat on Amazon, because my husband and I have matching shearling jackets we got at Wilson’s that were inexpensive yet awesome. I’m planning to have us stand in front of some foliage this weekend in our 3 matching costs and get some pictures taken.
Also, the dog has that red fleece, and my husband has a red vest, and the two of them really look alike anyway.
@Copa IMO the best dog coats are from a Canadian company, Teckelklub: https://www.teckelklub.com/best-selling-fuzzie-fleece-dog-coat/
My dog is small and always cold, and in the winter he basically wears this fleece all the time, even to bed. When it’s snowing, he wears a Wagwear parka over it. Each fleece has lasted at least a couple years with plenty of washings.
Yeah… this is getting really thin, with the random references to Scientology (??) and my height thrown in there (I’m average). There’s not even a thread in there to pick up, so going back into lurking sounds about right. I’ll just say, sure, I get on my high horse about some stuff, like Facebook or prostitution, but not drug use. I told you, I have issues too and am speaking from experience, but you’re not hearing it. That’s okay.
Holy stereotypes Batman. All women are being tee hee sneaky when they go get those diapers at Target, buying yoga pants and hiding it from hubby, and that’s the equivalent of doing drugs daily and lying about it. Riiiighttt. I’m not judging you for being an addict, really I’m not, I have my own issues, and it sounds like you’ve been through a lot…but a lot of your arguments are really BS.
Lying about and hiding drug use in a marriage is bullshit. In both my marriages, we knew what drugs we were doing and how much (I’m not going into detail because probably too many people know who I am irl). If you don’t have a medical condition and you’re self-administering a controlled substance daily and lying to your spouse about it, so that they believe you’re not a drug abuser, that’s not okay. It’s not about preventing nagging, it’s about misrepresenting yourself and not being compatible with your spouse. And yeah, you could lose your job, unless you’re carrying fresh pee with you every day. Random drug tests happen, particularly if people have a reason to think you do drugs.
Okay, sorry, that’s too long to read, but I see it’s addressed to me. I think you said you have a medical condition. Her husband doesn’t. Also “Before we were married my husband had a past with drugs and alcohol.”
No offense at all, and I actually have a girl-crush on my lawyer, but some of the most batshit commenters on here are lawyers or law students!
I mean, your gut telling you he does is good, and you’re probably right. But. He wouldn’t be the first guy to carry on in a relationship that he enjoys but in which he’s not in love. And with your lease coming up, I could see a guy who’s not feeling “in love,” but “in like / appreciation” moving forward with that anyway. Again, he probably does, but definitely find out where he’s at with that before letting your apartment go.
Yeah, honestly, that does seem a little weird – that he’d tell you he likes and appreciates you but not that he loves you. And a year is a long time to go for first “I love you,” based on the times that discussion has come up on DW. I would find out what’s up before moving in with him. If you do feel it, say it. See how he reacts.
Stop feeling stupid. He shouldn’t be doing shit like that if he’s not feeling it emotionally. A nice, self-aware person would be mindful of sending mixed signals.
