Kate
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Like, whatever we all were doing worked out for us and we’re good.
No one’s triggered except you, Jeff.
Jeff, you need to stop talking about women and sexual assault and risk and safety.
Also not to state the obvious, but people in New York, that you would date, come from everywhere, just like us. I’m from Boston. Lots of my friends have lived in NY. It’s not a closed system, Jeff.
And it’s just not credible that you would have no awareness of these issues in 2023.
What?
You’re not that close to these women if you believe they’ve never experienced sexual abuse or trauma.
Jeff Jeff Jeff I never said anything about “men,” I said Jeff. All my comments have been very focused on you and what you’ve said here. I never said you were predatory or a rapist, that’s you, hun. I said you’re pushy and aggressive based on your behavior here.
I said whiskey dick. But yeah that’s not really compatible with 5 beers over 9 hours so maybe just nerves. That’s my point though, if you have trouble performing with a new partner, then why be so quick to want to have sex on the first date? If you hook up on the 2nd or 3rd date (I tend to wait til the 6th but that’s me), then you know the woman likes you enough to want to explore possibilities with you. You’ve built up some chemistry. So, 1) you might be a little more comfortable, and 2) she’s less likely to just be like oh fuck this. You can get a little more physical each time over the course of a few dates, build up to it.
Yeah, amen, a hard dick. and don’t make her sit there and tell you! Take the lead, do something, and just be really tuned into how she’s reacting.
You’re missing something.
No, you’re not getting it. Look, I’m not going to tell you how to have good sex, but that’s not it.
Jeff my friend, wow.
