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@dre, woohoo! Can’t wait to hear more.
@copa, your date sounded like a lot of fun! It was so windy here, I’m impressed.
@kmen, I hope he knows he was in the wrong and if you two are long term, he realizes that he’ll have to pitch in when things are crazy (and all the time). Or what Kate said.
Let’s meet up there!
Safe travels dre! Have a blast.
Copa, I walk by that place every time I get my hair colored/cut! I might have to stop in sometime. I was going to ask where you two like Tacos.
I never make it down Halsted for Mexican, but I do like el Tapatio up by me. The bartender now knows the fiance and I… although we’re moving 🙁
@dre woohoo! So exciting.
Dre, my fingers are crossed that all goes well! Don’t put too much pressure on the trip. Go, have fun, enjoy each other’s company and then see what happens after. Easier said than done, I know, but I think that’s the best approach to take. One day (or trip) at a time.
And believe me, this is the perfect site to get your insecurities out of your head so you can enjoy your time with this guy. We’re here for you.
So… I just started dating the fiance when this forum post started. And as you all can attest, I started to overthink things at first, but between you all and a couple of friends, I calmed my nerves. Now, it’s not quite two years later we’ve come so far.
Despite my brief moments of insecurity, this relationship was pretty easy and I knew early on that “this was it.” Me and my extremely cautious nature, I didn’t voice that to hardly anyone because I did the whole engagement thing before, but I knew. I pretty much knew after the second date and it was cemented about a month later when he went to Vegas with friends. The texts I received while he was away. They just made me so happy.
Anyway, I think it’s smart to be optimistically cautious. But like I said, a good relationship shouldn’t be hard and you shouldn’t have to work at it early on. So, good luck Dre and Kmen! What you’re both experiencing sounds awesome.
MissDre. That’s exciting! Don’t let that little voice in your head freak you out. Go with it and enjoy this time. This is what a relationship should look like… someone excited about seeing you and wanting to include you and vice versa. You’ll have a fabulous time.
@k – I mentioned this earlier, but I always thought I’d have kids. Just in the last four years or so, I decided children are something I no longer wanted. But I do enjoy children. So…
I have fun with my nieces and now new nephew! My older niece came and stayed with me for a few days when she turned 10. We’ll do the same with the younger niece. The nephew lives in my same City so I fully intend to have him come and stay the night with us occasionally. I also took the older niece to her first concert. We take them to plays and musicals, etc. The fiance and I decided that when each of them graduate high school, we’re going to take them on a trip to nearly anywhere of their choosing.
Basically, I get to have fun with children I love (and I know it’s not the same as having my own, but I LOVE these children) without all the parenting stuff. For me, it’s a win!
Good luck this weekend ver. I agree with copa. That’s kind of a fun, interesting story.
Yay hfan. That’s good!
Good to know about Lisbon! Thanks! Yeah, the prices there seemed pretty reasonable.
