Lianne
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I echo ktfran – gold. If you don’t want red nails go dark – with something like Lincoln Park After Dark.
I thought I remembered you mentioning something with blue and gold – am I crazy?
Great minds, ktfran!
remind me of your dress? I just got a fun gold glitter polish that I am loving.
Veritek, obviously do what you want and feels right. I would just say, learn from your past experiences and incorporate them. I’ll leave it at that.
Yes, agree with Kate. This is about history and patterns and helping her see them to protect herself, really. I know lots of people who had first date sex/got comfortable quickly and it ended in long lasting relationships. That’s not the point I am making at all.
Yes – with ex, it was date #2; with now husband, it was date #5. I am not saying that’s the right formula. I just knew that for me, once I am intimate with a guy I like, it escalates. I wanted to really get to know A before jumping into the sex so I wouldn’t confuse things in my head and really understood my feelings.
It’s about learning from your mistakes. Things didn’t work out with the other guy, so don’t fall into the same patterns. I will say, from the sounds of things, Army Guy already sounds different, but you don’t want to fall into old habits. Keep the mystery going!
Edited to say, with my ex-bf – which, reminder, was on/off for 3 years and a disaster for me – we got comfortable super fast and it ended after 5 months. Coincidentally, Dexter was one of our shows (and I never finished the series, because bad memories). Just take it S-L-O-W. If it’s meant to be, these things will happen organically.
Well ktfran is doing a lazy day with her BF, but they are established and in L word territory. That makes sense. Third date comfort zone doesn’t.
Practice your angles, kare and figure out which is most flattering. Once you know that, you’ll be able to angle yourself appropriately in pics. It also helps if the camera is above you a bit so you have to look up. I find the best and most natural smile is achieved by pretending you’re laughing. As far as where to put your hands, a hand on the hip always works.
