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@ktfran well I definitely don’t feel ready to start making plans to move yet. I’m really happy with the way things are going, but I also feel like it would be too soon for a bigger commitment. And for the record I don’t think that’s what he was asking me for. I think he was just checking in that we’re on the same page.
I told him that I was really happy that he’s planning to visit at Christmas and that we can check in with each other about our relationship at that time.
And of course, we’ve got our visit coming up in September 🙂 Another 10 days together!
@veritek GOOD! Don’t respond. He was completely rude and inconsiderate.
Ummmmm I can’t recall having that issue… but maybe that’s because on bumble the photo format is full screen and all my phone pics are already full screen.
I’m watching an episode of Frasier from the first season, like 1993 I think. Seems like all our dating woes are the same as they’ve always been and I can’t stop laughing.
“A lot of people, like Dre, are sure that they will get married once and once only, and it will be forever. They love that vision.”
Yep, what Kate said. Doesn’t mean I won’t change my mind or see life differently as I get older. But for now, this is how I feel what I hope for.
As for guys with children, I’m not ready for kids right now. Nor do I want to come second to somebody else’s kids right now (and the kids should always come first!) nor do I want to be forever tied to somebody’s ex.
As I get older, the pool of available men will change, and I may have to adjust my attitude. But for now, it’s pretty rare for guys in my age range to have been married or have kids, so it’s not an issue that comes up.
@Kate I think I was sort of curious about whether he’d tell me or not?? but you’re totally right I’ve kind of lost interest. I haven’t heard from him anyway.
I am one of those people who sees a distinction.
Hell no, unless the divorce is 100% finalized I’m not touching that with a 10 foot pole. Anyway, we haven’t even discussed a second date. So, we’ll see if he even asks me out again.
Ok thanks! I was interested in meeting again, but definitely not swept off my feet or anything. After Pilot Jones, I feel like I need to be vigilant.
I just checked the site. Yes, divorced is an option to choose.
My bad I guess for looking up his thesis but shit… I wasn’t expecting that I just wanted to know more about his job.
I was really interested in his profession and his phd studies, which we discussed on the date. I wanted to learn more about it, so I looked up his thesis afterward. His thesis was dedicated to his wife. It was published 4 years ago so, could be they’re no longer together. But I have no idea.
His dating profile just said Relationship Status: Single ; Longest Relationship: Over 3 years
