Moneypenny
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@Hfantods, I think I can understand where you’re coming from a little. I have gone out with a couple of men who, from the get go, give me lots of compliments and while I’m flattered, part of me feels a little uneasy. Mainly because I feel like they don’t know me yet, I’m still feeling things out, and they are (possibly) moving way too fast for me. In my experience, it’s the guys who, after one date, tell me I’m amazing, so beautiful, special, etc etc and it makes me feel a little weird. I think it’s just me and what I’m comfortable with.
Sounds like he totally put his foot in his mouth. Which is no excuse. It’s a pretty insensitive thing to say to someone.
Eve- Hm, well, if you don’t feel like dating him, then don’t. I totally understand the feeling- there’s nothing *wrong* with him, but there’s something missing, or you’re just not drawn to him. (I feel like that’s chemistry.) I’ve been in the same position, and it sucks when you can’t quite figure out why you’re not into it. That’s usually a sign to me that it isn’t going to go anywhere and I’d better not waste his/my time. It happens a lot!
Awwww yeah!!!
I vote Kare for comment of the week.
Ah, gotcha! It sounds like you’ve got a good approach to the whole situation. 🙂
Just catching up here, and I thought the same thing as Kate- did he ask/did you give permission for him to stay all weekend? That’s awfully presumptuous. If it were me I’d be really put off by it.
However, I’m glad you are enjoying yourself! I’m just curious where this is going to go.
Yay, Stonegypsy! So glad you had a great time!!! 😀
Kare, the feedback thing is new- I like to think that he suggested it because he wanted, like, sexy photos or bikini shots or something. (Which I don’t have.) Otherwise, I think it’s a pretty good app.
Ack, Stonegypsy! I’m sorry. If it helps, I can relate somewhat. All of the dates I’ve been on lately have been really meh, and I haven’t had any matches at *all* for like, 3 weeks on coffee meets bagel except for the guy who wanted to walk barefoot and get dirty feet. I also got a “tip” from CMB the other day that someone had selected “have better pictures” as their reason for passing on me (they give you options for the reason why you choose to pass on someone)- Meanwhile, I’ve felt that my photos are a good representation of me, so the comment stung for a bit.
Anyways. I don’t know what to add to help you, but just know that at least 1 person (and probably more!) out there can understand how you’re feeling! And frankly, don’t waste any more energy on that guy. He’s not worth it. It’s good that you gave him an option to hang out, but it’s truly his loss to not take it. Furthermore that’s a lame excuse- although the water heater can be tied to the AC if the water from the WH is cycled into the condensing unit, but who knows if his actually does that.
Geez, what is WITH these guys? Wendy’s totally right. For lack of a better phrase, it sounds a bit like He’s Just not that Into You.
Bleh, that is so lame, Veritek. I agree with everyone else. Those beagles only get to meet someone who is really excited to meet them. It’s only fair!
