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I have known my boyfriend for 10 years and last week he met my family for the first time for Thanksgiving. He seemed to get along with everyone, but two days into our trip he started acting distant. When I finally got him to tell me what was wrong, he said that he thinks my relationship with my 17-year-old nephew was inappropriate. He said several things concerned him: 1) When my nephew got into town, I jumped all over him hugging and kissing him; 2) Later that evening my nephew was lying on his bed and I jumped on him; 3) He overheard us play fighting in the hall where my nephew…

I’ve been with my partner for four years, we have one child, and we live together. I trust him now, but sometimes I feel he isn’t being completely honest with me. I’ve had this experience in the past with him: Back when he was in a very bad place, I discovered a few lies. But now he is always by my side. Still, I keep getting this bad gut feeling about something that popped up on his phone. We both share our passwords, and when I was on his phone recently, I saw a sex site that he apparently set up where you can arrange to meet up with women for everything…

I have three beautiful kids with a man I married almost five years ago. I’ve been in a relationship with him on and off for the past 10 years. We have had an extensive history of physical abuse, emotional abuse, and verbal abuse. The state has been involved many times, and it’s safe to say that our whole relationship has had way more unhappy times than happy. My husband has called me a lot of names, and he has never helped me take care of the kids (he doesn’t even know who their doctor is). I have essentially been a single mom in a marriage with this man. Going out as a…

I grew up as an only child of a single mother in a tight-knit and somewhat conservative community in Michigan. My mother was a gold-digger, irresponsible, and kinda slutty. Don’t get me wrong; I loved her. She took care of me the best she could and I appreciate everything she did for me, but that’s who she was: a gold-digger. She chased men with money all her life, even if they had families of their own. She wrecked many homes because she fucked the husbands. It’s actually how I came into the world; at age 25 she fucked her 57-year-old boss who was married with three teenage kids of his own. He…

I broke up with my ex back in February. We later started seeing each other again but never rekindled our relationship. Then I found out I was pregnant in June and told him. At first he told me he wasn’t ready to be a dad, he had no intentions on fixing our relationship, and I should have an abortion. We continued to see each other for around 3-4 weeks after I told him. He then went on a date with another girl and has been seeing her ever since, and he is saying he has a 20% doubt that the baby is his, but he’s the only person I’ve had sex with….