“How Do I Tell My Boyfriend I’m Dating Someone Else?”

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences, because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great, being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. Today we discuss the difference between true “platonic” friends of the opposite sex and friends who probably want to bang more than they want to sit around having beers and watching an episode of “Homeland” together.

“Is My Boyfriend Racist?”

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences, because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great, being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. Today we discuss insensitive comments, parents’ role in a relationship, and how to handle a boyfriend who turns into a baby when he’s mad.

“Should I Propose to My Boyfriend/ Ex/ Father of My Kids?”

I have been with the same guy for fifteen years and we have two kids together. We were married for five years then divorced for one year and have been back together for two years. We live together now and his mom lives with us. He says that he has been thinking of marriage again. I am 32 and he is 31 and I know he’s not the type to propose because he didn’t last time — he just took me to the justice of peace and said we were getting married. I am thinking of proposing to him. Do you think I should? And if he says no do you think…

“Should I Have a Baby For Him?”

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in three sentences or less, because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great, being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. Today we discuss having babies to keep a guy, hating your fiancé, and being a secret from the other woman.

“Why Do Guys Like Lap Dances?”

It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in three sentences or less, because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great, being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. Today we discuss lap dances, shoplifters, and mack daddies (the moral trifecta!).

Quickies: “Is My Ex Really In Love with His New Girlfriend?”

I was in a long distance relationship for the past seven years (I’m 29, he’s 28) and had trouble fully committing to making plans for a future together. Just as I was finally making a choice, my boyfriend broke up with me before I could tell him I picked him and wanted to move to him. Now, only three weeks later he is seeing a new girl (25, blonde, party type) partying at clubs, bars, buying her roses, and even planning a trip/vacation together. Are they actually in love? Or is this a rebound? I always thought by giving him time he would be able to work things out and maybe we…

Quickies: “I Don’t Want to Blow All Our Money On Our Wedding!”

My boyfriend and I got engaged a month ago after dating a year. His proposing was the happiest day, but ever since then I have been stressing over the idea of money. I am terrified to share with him how little money I have actually saved over the years, scared of him running away or looking down on me that I cannot contribute so much to our wedding and future. I have taken on a second job in hopes to add some more to my bank accounts, but he keeps telling me I don’t have to work another job. How do I tell my fiancé I am scared to get married for…

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