Updates

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Moved to Write” who worried that it was “anti-feminist” to move across the country to live with her long-distance boyfriend. After the jump, find out whether she decided to make the move or not.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Stuck in the Middle,” a 26-year-old woman who wondered if she should try to intervene in her parents divorce on behalf of her mother who felt like she wasn’t getting a fair settlement. Many readers told her to keep out. After the jump, find out how she she decided to handle the situation.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Friendly Foul” who had been “banned” from her good guy friend’s life by his new wife. “During a drunk moment with Holly,” she wrote, “right before their wedding, I let slip that Devon and I had some of those awkward friends-thinking-about-being-something-else moments. Apparently, Devon never told Holly about them, and her reaction was to ban me from speaking with Devon ever again, including defriending me on Facebook.” After the jump, find out if the LW…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Just Not Feeling It,” a woman in her late-30s who didn’t feel much passion for the guy she was seeing but worried that time was running out for her to find someone else. After the jump, find out whether she’s still with the guy and if her attitude has changed at all.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Tired of Denying My Bisexual Desires,” a bisexual woman who was considering marrying her boyfriend of six years but worried about never being able to be with a woman again. “Should I just suck it up and deny who and what I am? I know that there are sacrifices and compromises in every relationship, so does this fall under that category, or am I kidding myself to think this is something I can just turn…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Saying ‘Uncle!’” who was nervous about her uncles teasing her much-older boyfriend (and his “wrinkly balls”) at Thanksgiving. After the jump, find out whether she had to put them in their place or not.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Anxious Bridesmaid” who wondered if she should/could skip her friends’ wedding two days later even though she was a bridesmaid. “The thought of spending more time with this person who has hurt me so much brings tears to my eyes. Moreover, I know that above all this is her special day, and I need to suck it up and act happy if only for the pictures or while she’s talking to me. But I just…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Ready for More,” a 28-year-old woman who had yet to do anything more physically intimate with her boyfriend of six months than kiss. She wrote: “I would really like to move in the direction of sex, but I’m not sure how to proceed. I’m not lacking in sexual experience, but I’ve never had to make the first move. I’m 99.9% sure that he’s a virgin, and I don’t want to freak him out, but at…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Rugby Widow” whose original letter appeared in a His Take column when she asked the guys how she could convince her husband to give up rugby now that he’s in his 30s and more prone to dangerous injuries. She gave an update in August, writing: “My husband isn’t quitting but he seems to be blowing off practice more. So I think that time will help him let this part of his life go.” Now, two…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Dollars and Sense” who was thinking about moving in with her boyfriend of nine months but worried about their big difference in salaries (she makes more than three times what he makes). She wrote: “I think my main fear is that, as much as I love him, I’ll start resenting him once I’m paying a big chunk of his living expenses. Also, we will probably need to move out of the city center to find…