Updates

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Not Big Enough,” who had a great first date with a guy she met online, but who, afterward, told her he preferred heavier women — like his ex, who was over 300 lbs. — and that she simply wasn’t big enough for his taste. Still, NBE hoped to change his mind and win him over with her personality, but we all advised her to MOA. After the jump, find out whether she followed that advice…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Tired of Being Lied To,” who was upset that her friend, whom she was planning to move in with in September, was lying about her relationship with her brother. After the jump, find out if she’s still planning on moving in with her friend and how she feels about her potentially getting back together with her brother.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Take Two,” who had recently reunited with a ex-boyfriend but started having doubts again when she learned he continued to date the woman he once cheated on her with. Find out whether she decided to keep seeing him or to dump him, after the jump.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Caught in the Middle,” who wondered if she should tell her dad that her mother was remarrying only a year after their divorce. Find out how she’s doing after the jump.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Hormonally Charged,” who was pissed that her long-distance boyfriend was no longer spending hours on Skype with her each day, choosing, instead, to hang out with friends occasionally and even play video games online. She swore it was her new birth control pills making her crazy. She planned to switch to a lower dose, but also said this: “My boyfriend told me the other day that I’m becoming ‘too much to handle’ and that made…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Heartbroken,” a high school student whose boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with her. “This wouldn’t be a big deal if I didn’t have to see him. But we’re in high school and we go to the same school [and] see each other all the time,” she wrote. You gave her tons of advice on how to cope until graduation. After the jump, find out if she followed your advice and how…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from Scary Diagnosis who was diagnosed with lung cancer and wondered if she had to tell her family, who had suffered a lot of bad news and hardship in recent years. “My family has already been through so much pain and I don’t want to cause them anymore,” she wrote. “It’s feasible to keep it a secret; I just don’t know if it’s right. I want to protect them, but I’m also scared for myself.” After…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from Bisexual and Alone who was having a hard time coming to terms with her sexuality and feeling especially alone in her small town where she lacked a supportive group of like-minded people to turn to. After the jump, find out how she’s doing today.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Asking Too Much?,” whose letter was featured in a shortcuts column last month when she confessed that her physical relationship with her boyfriend left a lot to be desired and whenever she brought it up with him, he’d just laugh and make a joke about it. After the jump, find out whether she’s still with the guy and if things have gotten better.