Your Turn: “My Boyfriend’s Depressed and I’m Sexually Frustrated”

In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me: I’m a 24 year-old female in my first long-term relationship. My boyfriend, also 24, is a serial monogamist who went two years without having sex prior to me and post breaking up with a girlfriend of three years. I really like sex and have always had a higher libido than him from the start, but lucky for him he’s huge and as a result I’m normally too sore to have sex more than once a week. Currently, we haven’t had sex in almost two months. I…

Your Turn: “I Sent Dirty Texts To Myself to Make Him Jealous”

In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me: Things have recently ended with a guy I have been seeing for about a year and some change. I feel like I may have ruined the relationship. We were dating for about two months when I decided to sleep with him, but about a month after that he told me he had a date with someone else. He told me he was just doing it as a favor to a coworker (the date was with her daughter), so, I started acting like I didn’t care and…

Your Turn: “Am I Just a Replacement Girlfriend?”

In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me: My partner and I have been seeing each other for about six months. The beginning was rocky and more like a secret relationship. For example, we held hands but he let go if anyone we knew could be around, and he wouldn’t tell friends if he had spent the evening with me, etc. Not until the past three months have we become more comfortable with the idea of calling ourselves “girlfriend and boyfriend” and not until two weeks ago did he tell his parents about me….

Your Turn: “Should I Tell My Ex/ Roommate That I Still Love Him?”

In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me: I live with my ex-boyfriend and we’re best friends but I still have feelings for him and they are driving me crazy. I can’t tell him how I feel because we live together and if he doesn’t feel the same way he would probably want me to move out and I have no place to go. I think about him all the time to the point where he’s constantly in my dreams and I’m so mentally and physically exhausted by the end of every day from…

Your Turn: “He Wants to Marry Me, But He’s Moving In With His Girlfriend”

In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me: I met a guy online, about three years ago. Originally, I stopped talking to him because he crossed a line that I do not cross with friends. We talked it over and became really good friends. He calls once in a while to check on me, and vice versa. When I returned to school last year he and I talked a lot, went out to dinner, and saw movies as well. I was at the time breaking up with my ex for the last time and…

Your Turn: “My Boyfriend Lost Two Marines in His Unit”

In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me: My boyfriend and I have been together for about three years, two and a half of which were long distance (we just ended our LD portion almost two months ago and are now about 40 minutes apart). He is in the military, so I feel very happy to have this time together while we do. Anyway, there was recently a very tragic accident in his unit, resulting in the loss of two Marines. To say we are heartbroken (in different ways) is an understatement and I…

Your Turn: “How Can I Balance Law School and Love?”

In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me: I just started law school a couple weeks ago. It’s been busy, but fun and interesting so far. However, even though looking for a relationship at this very moment is the last thing on my mind, I can’t help but think about my situation. I went through undergrad boyfriend-less because I was shy and self-conscious about my weight. So what now? School’s my priority, but I don’t want to be single forever. I’d like to have someone to call a boyfriend once in my life! How…

Your Turn: “My Husband Keeps Having Babies With Another Woman!”

In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me: My husband and I have been together four years. When we got together, he was still with his babymama — their baby was two-weeks-old at the time, but that was fine because I wasn’t looking for a commitment then. We spent every day together for the next three months, and our feelings got more involved, so we moved in together. Over the course of our first six months together I didn’t know that he was still involved with his babymama. I found out when she called…

Your Turn: “How Can I Move Past His Cyber Cheating?”

In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me: I’ve been in a very awkward relationship with a man for eight years now. It started with us just being sex buddies then it turned into something more. We dated for about two years then broke up because I was expecting him to cheat on me all the time and I would compare him to my father, who cheated on my mother. We both knew we couldn’t move on so we kept seeing each other with a plan intact. The plan was that because I had…

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