DW Community Catch-up Thread
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You wrote, “If things don’t pick up a bit more after football season/marching season is over – It’s gonna be time to ask where this is going. Like, if we aren’t seeing each other more regularly by Christmas time, I think it might be time to move on. It’s just hard. I get attached quickly and already the thought of “breaking up” with him makes me sad. I like talking to him everyday and i really enjoy spending weekends with him. But I do know I want a relationship soon. And yes, I think the distance plays into all of it.”
Why are you hanging on? You are “in” a relationship that he is not into or even aware of. It was fun, but it is time to go.
Go away, Boogie/Mimosa/whatever your name is in this thread or the next. Today is not the day. This is not the site. And this thread isn’t about you.
Ignore the troll, Ver. I like what you’re doing and think that while you and Tinder Teacher may have met at an in opportune time, what you’re doing is a good plan to see if it’s worth making it work.
I am not agreeing, I am trying to provide you some advice. Unless you can provide some intel on how this “relationship” is actually mutually beneficial (or exist) to both of you than you need to get it together. We have 100 pages of what? Go back and re-read the thread. It is your dating history of your last two guys on display. I am not trying to be mean but I am having you try and learn from your own post/history.
Girl, you need to think, Do you feel you are not a priority in his life? As a male, I would have made time for you when I had time for you. He is not running for president so he has time.
Well, jimmyjam, I wasn’t really asking for advice. This was just a thread to share dating stories. Right now I’m dating a guy. I never said I was in a relationship. I never called him my boyfriend. I’m dating him. That’s it. We talk every day, and we make plans to see each other when we can. Right now I don’t see anything wrong with that. I would love to him more but life is what it is right now.
You are well within your rights to think I’m a complete idiot and that you’re right and I’m wrong and that’s fine. We’ll just have to see what happens. Right now I’m enjoying having to this man in my life in whatever capacity we can both make happen.
Miss MJ, I am not “Mimosa” or whatever. I am better , it is honest advice from a guy.
What ” opportune time”? He can’t even find time to see her. He put her on hold for a month to conduct in a marching band on Saturday, during the day. Stop thinking with your feelings and use the facts in front of front of you. Go read it, 100 pages of what, guys not giving a care in the world.
Let me tell one last thing, no guy wants to go into corn maze unless he is getting a BJ or shooting zombies with a gun. Not even Bitter Gay Mark would go into a cron maze without a BJ.
Well, we never actually went to the corn maze. So that argument was just lame and out of place. And apparently nothing I say is going to make you agree with me so that’s OK. You can think of me whatever you want to. I understand when he tells me that he has an all day long band competition and honestly driving three hours to get to see somebody for just a few more hours and then driving three more hours back home is exhausting. So I understand. And I get to see him next weekend so I’m just gonna look forward to that
