DW Community Catch-up Thread
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hrm, interesting to see you all comment on being judged re: sexuality; I experienced something similar when my then best friend got married and have always assumed it was me…
In any case, @kare, have you ever tried creating a dating profile for both of you stating what you’re looking for? A friend of mine and her SO use Ok Cupid that way. Just a possibility.
As for dates, I went on a date to Bass Pro shops on Saturday which I thought was kinda awesome (and was my idea). The one here has a waterfall with real (local) fish in it and so much cool taxidermy.
I like both of those! I don’t think you should worry about skimpiness, but obviously don’t get anything you’re uncomfortable in. It’s vacation, do what makes you happy.
@em, that sounds like more work than either of us is willing to do, especially since we aren’t in a committed relationship. He knows tons of girls that are interested, but I’m just kind of intimidated by the whole thing. Which is why I would prefer he be involved even if it’s just with me. I just don’t think I would have the confidence on my own.
@Nookie he’s fine being involved, but most of the girls he knows are either lesbians or in relationships with men and only play with women. So we will see. But it’s nice to have someone who can kind of guide me through things since he’s been there, done that. I figure your 20s are the best time to explore your sexuality, right?
Absolutely! If only to have some naughty memories to keep you company when we’re old ladies 😀 Well I can understand your trepidation, you want to tip your water in that pool and not get overwhelmed… Didn’t you say that you went to parties? Maybe you could look for a third together that you’d both like?
@veritek, I’m fine with adding any age to the list. I mean even people in their 60s swing.
@Nookie, we probably will keep an eye out at parties. Especially once summer hits and there’s lots of clothing optional pool parties.I’m going shopping this weekend for my Iceland trip! There’s a sportswear outlet, and I think now is around they time they start putting winter stuff on clearance. Hopefully I can find a good deal on rain pants and stuff like that.
I think 30’s (and all ages) should definitely be added to the list. I heard (probably on Savage Love) that some women don’t fall into their kinks until their 30’s. That decade is looming large for me and I’m looking forward to that aspect.
People still have plenty of sex in their 40s too, guys. And if you got married young, say, and divorced, that may be the time to go crazy. Totally depends on your circumstances. My 20s were pretty boring. Teens and 30s were wilder.
I will say my 30s, all 18 months of it, have been a tiny bit crazier than my 20s. But I was a late bloomer y’all. I say have fun at whatever age you want to!
I didn’t mean that people shouldn’t be able to have wild sex at any age. It’s just that my friends are starting to settle down and say they’ve “outgrown” the casual sex phase of their lives. Which is fine for them, but it is a bit annoying to get judgment for kissing on the first date. It’s just weird to me for a friend circle that used to be pretty open about sex and is and not religious or anything.
