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“We’ve been on two dates already! WHY DON’T YOU LOVE MEEEEEE?!”
@veritek WUT??? That is seriously nuts. What a diiiiiick. Only I get to call myself a slut! At least he showed his ass before you invested any more time or energy on him. I hope you screenshot that conversation. You never know when that stuff will come in handy.
This raises an interesting question for me, though. When should you shut down your dating profiles? Obviously not two dates in because I’m not insane, but when? I recently discovered that the shy one (who I met from an online dating site) disabled his account. We have not had any conversations about it, and I’m keeping mine up for the time being because I don’t feel ready to take them down. But how much longer is it acceptable for me to keep them up? Also a little worried that now that we’re approaching the sixth date that there may be a define-the-relationship talk looming. I’m not ready for that yet, but I think I could be eventually. I’m so used to guys “not believing in marriage” or not being “ready for a relationship” or just generally being noncommittal and wishy washy that I don’t even know what I’m doing now that a good man has come along.
@shakeourtree I wonder about that sometimes too. How many dates does it take before it’s appropriate to have the “what are we?” talk? (not that I’m approaching that anytime soon… just wondering in general)