DW Community Catch-up Thread
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It’s good to have success stories because for all our single or singlish friends out there who are looking to partner up, this is what a good relationship looks and feels like! Don’t deal with douches!
Speaking on the note of douches: I have a good friend I email with daily (and have for 5 years). She works for a company that is a customer of mine so a lot of it is work-related items, but we have gotten to know each other very well over the years and have similar interests and hobbies. Anyway, her husband SUCKS. Like majorly and gives me PTSD back to MaterialsDouche days. I know I’m on the other side of it now, but I can’t help thinking “it just doesn’t have to be like this!” It shouldn’t feel like pulling teeth to live a normal life.
Slight deviation: has anyone here who uses Tinder tried the group option before? One of my friends forced me into a group with him and it actually seems like it could be fun to try for real (or at LEAST lead to a funny story).
A seemingly-nice, good-looking-but-not-my-usual-type guy and I are setting up a first date for sometime next weekend when he returns home from vacation.
@Copa I’ve seen that on Tinder but I haven’t tried it. Honestly it kinda creeps me out lol. Any idea what you’ll do for your date?
I had a date last night that went really well! I got to try that restaurant I’ve been wanting to try and the company (the date) was excellent! Planning a third date soon!
me too @ktfran! I really almost cancelled the first date last week and I’m so glad I didn’t! This guy is really cool and I’m glad I gave him a chance. We even ran into two friends of his when we went across the street to a bar to get a drink after dinner and they were super cool too. It was really fun.
Dilemma – I have a first “date” with a guy next week (Dating app so i mean, i hardly consider the first meeting a “date” until we figure out whether we even like each other). Do i take out my card to pay my half for the drinks or what?!! I’ve always pulled my card out and a guy last year that i went out with told me “That makes it feel like its just a friends thing, let me pay!” But, i dont EXPECT anyone to pay for me and like to be able to pay my own way! and every guy is different and some get offended.. oui!
@courtney89 do whatever YOU want to do, whatever feels right to you. Don’t think about what you “should” do according to other people or according to how it might make a guy feel. Everybody is going to have a different opinion, so decide what feels authentic to you and stick with that.
