DW Community Catch-up Thread
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Or 6… then it’s like, if it’s going well maybe you order some food. If it’s not, have an excuse or just finish your second wine and be like, welp, gotta run! This is what I always did. Every time.
Maybe something like an arcade – so you can interact and get to know each other or focus on something else if you’re really not enjoying their company.
Ummmmm I’m not really sure what to say to this….
Him: Btw I deleted Tinder. I couldn’t go any further with an app like that on my phone.
Me: Ok… why do you feel that way?
Him: I don’t know to be honest. I’m not cut out for that.
Me: Ok. Whatever works for you 🙂
What else should I say to this? Or should I leave it alone? I just found it a bit odd and now I’m not sure what his expectations are.
Honestly, I would just bail. I wouldn’t even go on a second date with a guy I wasn’t at least confident I could have a good conversation with. It’s fine not to know if you’re into him, but if you’re not even sure you could get a bite to eat and be able to talk comfortably, nah. Plus telling you he deleted Tinder is just awkward and weird. There is no reason to be blurting out things like that after one date.
Was it like:
1. I don’t know how to be honest, or,
2. I don’t know. To be honest, I’m not cut out for that.What he’s saying is he’s had no luck on Tinder and/or is placing all his eggs in your basket. Neither is appealing.
True.
Also, just want to clarify: It’s not that I think I can’t have a decent conversation with him. Going for coffee last week was pleasant. It’s just that he seems very reserved and I sense that there’s more underneath the quiet exterior (whether good or bad, I don’t know yet). He could be just shy, or he could be weird and/or not compatible with me. I thought I’d at least give it a second date to see if he we get to know each other any better.
But yeah, I think it’s a bit odd that he’s telling me he deleted his Tinder.
