I hear that! I came home to a flooded bathroom. So… They had to rip up my wall and ceiling and now it looks like I have to repaint. Ugh.

Thanks, Wendy. It has been a real frustrating headache. Bah!

But… back to the topic at hand… HOT DATES, fyi, everybody! Wendy and I had a FaceTime threesome with ADDIE PRAY! All this and more, while Drew watched like a voyeur from the bedroom window…

Whaaaaat AP I live like a mile away from you I could have made a cameo!

@Wendy I actually prefer men in their late 30s! I’ve been dating them since I was 25 haha. I’s say 28-38 is about right. I’ve been on a few dates with a very nice (and has his shit together) 29 year old Canadian and we’re heading to a hockey game tonight. Soooooo we’ll see.

Hey my shallow ladies, I am back and it looks like some of you are still running in the same circles of the single life…ask yourself how long have you been single and how many guys have come and gone.

I hope men get to judge you the same way as you judge them. Trust me, gravity will take hold and drag those boobies and bellys to the ground. Shame (yes, I am ringing the shame bell on you)

Side note, If you have been with a man for over two weeks and he has not tried anything physical than chances are it ain’t gonna happen. You have been relegated to the friend zone.

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Kisses and I missed you…

I have to be honest and say that I’m really sad and upset by what happened on this forum today. Jimmyjam’s comment really hit a nerve with me, even though I know he’s mostly a blowhard. I never meant anything I said to be judgmental or rude to a man who looks older. Never. It was simply a theory, and not meant to pass any kind of moral or attractiveness judgment. I’m not perfect-looking either (or conventionally attractive, it seems) and I’ve been passed over or judged for it many, many times. I’ve been bullied for how I look, up to and including this year. A few years ago, one (now ex) boyfriend told me that because of how petite I am, I’d never be considered “sexy,” only “cute.” I work hard, very hard, to appear attractive to men but there’s only so much one can do with genetics and the hand you’re dealt. I can’t get taller.

I would never want anyone to think I am judgmental about how others look because I know how hard it is to feel like you will never measure up and there will always something more you could do to look better/more attractive. So if any of my comments could have been taken that way, I truly do apologize.