DW Community Catch-up Thread
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Your ex is a huge jerk, @Ale. The way he is treating you is very unkind, and I think it’s really weird that he keeps trying to greet you with kisses. Also, he’s pretty stupid if he can’t figure out Amazon. Keep doing what you’re doing to make sure he knows you’re not going to take his bullshit, and when you’re dumping his packages off at his desk, I think it’d be appropriate to ask him to pay any fees you incurred.
Ale, what he is doing is unbelievably cruel! And he sounds like he has a towering sense of entitlement and selfishly just wants what he wants, when he wants it. He should change gyms as a small gesture to make amends and ask NOTHING of you, ever again. Protect yourself and let your heart heal.
@hfantods I don’t use read receipts, but when I get a message, it always pops up on my screen and I can read it then and there without having to open the message itself. I’m assuming your guy saw and read the message, but didn’t open it (hence no read receipt). If you haven’t heard from him yet, my guess is that you’re not going to. I think it’s a jerk move to leave someone hanging even after one date, TBH.
He can obviously figure it out but he didn’t want to do anything on his own, he wanted me to do it. He can do everything, he is a very smart person, but a very lazy one. He needed to keep me close, so he can feel better about what an asshole he is. @Copa, yes he will owe me money, however I don’t want to talk to him about anything. I don’t want any type of contact. I don’t want to ask him for money or anything else.
Yeah, that’s understandable. Just take the high road and move on. I’m glad you’re sticking up for yourself, and freeing yourself up to find a better match. Yay for getting mad!
@Ale, I like that you’re angry at him. That’s good! Because he’s a jack hole and you deserve better. Don’t let him get the better of you. You’re strong. Remember that.
I’m sorry you’re going through this, but you will get through it. Do anything and everything you need to do to move forward. Sending you lots of good thoughts.
@Ale I’m sorry. But I’m glad you’ve reached the anger stage – that helps with getting over them. I have an ex that wanted to be friends almost immediately and it just fucked with my head and I finally had to go no contact for a few months. We ARE friends now, but we aren’t friends on social media and we only see each other about 3-4 times a year. This guy is just being a huge douche canoe and doesn’t deserve your time or attention.
@Copa, yeah, I still think about those two times. I knew better even though I tried to justify it like “online dating is so casual, we haven’t even exchanged numbers”. Yeah, no. I definitely haven’t not replied after two dates though.
Yikes…. Ale.
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Your ex is the King Of Mixed Signals. Time to give him a clear one of your own. Calmly, politely, but firmly tell him that you think its best you two have no contact for a good long while. Tell him it’s so you BOTH can move the fuck on already. No discussion. Then tell him you are BLOCKING him for a while and suggest he do the same.
