DW Community Catch-up Thread
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Yeah, we’re going out again this weekend to something way more low-key. (We’re going for a bite to eat and this pop-up museum: https://www.architecturaldigest.com/story/happy-place-museum) He’s really nice so far and I’m so tired of jerks and guys who don’t care if they hurt my feelings, so I’m excited.
@veritek33 If MoV offers to take you to Hamilton, you GO. I was expecting to like it going in, but had no idea I’d become part of the hype. I thought it was a work of genius. I learned, I laughed… I even cried a little.
Hahaha. Yes peoples problems are beneath me. Because a man taking you to dinner isn’t s freaking problem. People look for stuff to bitch about.
Actually it’s 3 hours. And that is a problem because it’s an inconvenience. Eating good food is not an inconvenience.
Bam!
Yes. My saying, “This gesture made me pause. Am I off base here?” is definitely bitching. Nailed it!
You basically take every opportunity to tell everyone here that the way they feel doesn’t matter. That the things they worry about aren’t valid. That we’re all whiney brats, or just trying to find things to bitch about.
It’s one thing to offer genuine, well-intentioned feedback when someone is asking for advice. But it’s seriously not fucking cool to constantly put everyone down.
If you’re so incredibly emotionally evolved to be above all the things that worry us or that we feel we need to talk about, good for you! So glad that you’re able to just not give a fuck about anything, it must be very freeing!
But guess what, not everyone is like that. In fact, most of us here probably aren’t. We participate in this thread because we’re looking to share our stories and process our thoughts and ask questions in a supportive environment. We don’t come here to have you constantly putting us down and calling us whiny bitches.
We have to be careful when dating. Treating someone to something expensive could mean he is asking for something else. and sometimes when man don’t get what they wanted, they get violent or harsh or rude. Of course not all men, but you have to be careful.
I was at a concert a couple days ago and met a guy in the line and then during the concert we stayed together. He treated me to a very expensive beer and I was freaked out thinking that maybe he wanted to sleep with me. At the end he was just being nice, but you never know. It’s not bad to be careful.That being said, and with the update, I think that he probably doesn’t know how expensive the tickets are.
