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    January 31, 2019 at 4:31 pm #828470

    @thehizzy that was my next question for MofV- are we going to hurt her feelings getting married in the same year or is that allowed? She’s 29, we are 34 and want to try for kids soon after getting married. So we’ll be 35/36 next year. Not that age matters too much, but I’m just saying it’s stupid to delay ours till 2021 just for her.

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    January 31, 2019 at 4:33 pm #828471

    If someone gets their feelings hurt over you getting married in the same year, YEAR, then she is mentally unstable. A wedding is a day, not a year. People do this but it’s freaking ridiculous.

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    January 31, 2019 at 4:43 pm #828472

    @ver, you should get engaged next week and get married in, IDK, Nov. JK. Sort of. Not really. I will say, 9 – 10 months is plenty of time to plan a wedding….

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    January 31, 2019 at 4:46 pm #828473

    lol ktfran – we either want to do April/May or Sept/Oct/Nov because of outside reception venues so if she already took May……..

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    January 31, 2019 at 4:48 pm #828475

    YES!

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    January 31, 2019 at 4:52 pm #828476

    We literally just want to get married at a county courthouse that is gorgeous and then have a wine/picnic type reception with like the 50 people we truly enjoy. That’s not stealing Disney thunder is it?

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    January 31, 2019 at 4:56 pm #828477

    That sounds so much better than Disney 🙂

    I’m partial to October – our anniversary is 10/10

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    January 31, 2019 at 5:01 pm #828478

    I think your wedding sounds lovely and no thunder steeling. If she isn’t happy enough with just being married that’s her issue.

    I always wanted to do courthouse in San Fran. It’s beautiful.

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    January 31, 2019 at 5:02 pm #828479

    Pretty courthouse + small/low-key reception would be right up my alley.

    Get pregnant first, then insist she cannot steal your thunder by procreating within a specified timeframe.

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    January 31, 2019 at 5:04 pm #828480

    @ver… it’s not… and it sounds perfect.

    The husband and I got engaged/married under similar circumstances to you and this person (me being you and a close friend being the sister). Without boring you, it ended up working out and everyone had the wedding they wanted. I was even in the friend’s wedding, which happened to be only six weeks after mine. All our friends came to both and many had to travel to both.

    Anyway, people will make it work as long as they aren’t assholes.

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    January 31, 2019 at 5:06 pm #828482

    @Copa, or at Cindy’s overlooking the park and lake with immediate family, which is what I did 😉 Then keg/wine/PQM catered party on our rooftop!!!!

    EDT: Even planning that, I was so ready to just fucking elope.

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    January 31, 2019 at 5:21 pm #828486

    Elope!

    I was all for it. FMH was not.

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