DW Community Catch-up Thread
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June 17, 2019 at 6:50 pm #845586
Congratulations @Hizzy! And that’s a beautiful photo! 🙂
June 25, 2019 at 7:44 am #846220Lots of changes have happened here! I am going to grad school this fall and my BF has been trying to find work in that city, and last Thursday he got a job offer! He has accepted, and because his move in time/work start date is around the same time as me moving, we decided to look into a place together 🙂
First time living with a guy I am dating, it has been 2 years and we are both ready. Even sent him the list of things to do before moving in, and we pretty well have all the key ones discussed. Very excited, but also nervous as it will be a new experience for us. Otherwise, holy crap the moving coordination, splitting our stuff and determining a place is so time consuming.
We are in the area this weekend for a wedding and since it is going to be raining most of the time, unless it changes, we are going to do some apartment visits.
So dude I was hanging out/hooking up with ended things (I posted about him earlier).
Turns out I gave him a chance and ended up liking him a lot, wanting something with him. When I started showing more interest he got weird, it was always me chasing him and it got old. Just recently he told me he doesn’t want a relationship after I thought things we’re back to normal. So he ended things because he says its affecting me.
This rejection sucks because I was very reluctant at first and when I gave in he bailed. Anyways, all kinds of rejection suck. I’m really tired you guys. Feel lonelier than ever, failure after failure.@Ale I’m sorry! Isn’t the the one who initially came on super strong talking about wanting a relationship immediately? That sucks, and this probably just goes to show he’s not that great. If it’s any consolation, I was single for about four years between relationships with lots of false starts to relationships that didn’t work out and some rejection. It was hard, sometimes really hard! But it helped to take dating breaks and fill my life with activities/hobbies/vacations/you name it that were for me and only me.
TheHizzyJune 27, 2019 at 9:42 am #846442@Ale I’m sorry. Rejection is hard. And a casual relationship is really hard to do and always has a expiration date. I’m sorry you’re going through this right now. Take some self care time for sure!!
And yes it’s just MH now. Trying to decide if I’m changing my name at all.
June 29, 2019 at 11:47 pm #846640@Ale, I am sorry 🙁 It hurts more I imagine seeing as he kind of lead you on to believe there could have been something stronger. Don’t take it too hard on yourself, you only did what you thought was appropriate given the cues from him.
treat yo’self this week as a reminder of what you are truly worth.
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