Can someone help me?
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At this point, forget advice forums and seek religious help, like an exorcism of whatever has taken possession of your mind. You keep talking about sociopath this and evil that and selfish this and drunk abusive that… it’s all projection. You appear to be all of those things. It’s you, Suzanna, not them.
Kate, of course not! I tell him how sorry I am that she is putting him through this BS and not to blame himself (even if he is to blame -how would I know, I wasn’t in the picture back then).
Northern Star, I used to give a shit. Really. Now, after dealing with so much BS and reading each and every comment here, as well as similar stories on other forums, I am fully convinced that the secret to happiness and peace of mind in these situations is not giving a shit. I want to be happy. I’m tired of all the drama. I’m done giving a shit.
If you spent 1/10th of the time in therapy that you spend trying to justify your psychopathic behavior on here, the world would be a much safer place.
I love how some of the most awful, hypocritical people in the world hide behind their religion and use that as an excuse to be rotten and lack compassion. Case in point. This LW. But you know what, she’ll be ok. She was “saved.” So you can be as horrible and spiteful and gross as you want.
There have only been maybe two LWs that have disgusted me. This takes the cake.
How did he not raise her to drink and party when he wasn’t in fact buying her the booze. Remove head from ass.
Keymaster,
“Even if the 19-year-old were a serial killer, I can’t imagine any loving parent feeling relieved or like it was really “good riddance” to be cut off from said child’s life.”
Wow, you would want to have a relationship with a 19-almost-20-year-old *child* even if said child were a serial killer?
That’s crazy!
No parent is “happy” when their kid turns out to be an asshole. It’s embarrassing and humiliating. But I’m convinced, for their own mental health, that they are better off without said *child* in their life. Some children are just toxic. It doesn’t mean they stop loving them. I seem to recall Scott Peterson’s mother declaring her love for her son the day he was sentenced and taken to death row for murdering his wife and unborn son.
Why is this hard for some of you to understand?
Don’t misunderstand- I’m not religious, my ex was. I’m an avowed atheist. My partner is a backslidden Baptist. He was raised in the church but hasn’t been to church in years. And yeah, he’s taking to the bottle lately. So have I. It’s how we’ve been coping.
And no, he didn’t raise her that way. Buying the booze was a “special request” by the princess and daddy just couldn’t say no. Maybe he just wanted his little asshole to be popular, and what better way to make your kid the most popular kid on the block than to buy booze for her and her high school classmates every weekend.
I actually think a lot of her resentment of me stems from the fact that I was the one who put the kabosh on the underage drinking shortly after he and I met. I told her that I didn’t approve, and neither would her mother, and that her father could go to jail if something terrible were to happen as a result of the underage drinking. I just couldn’t believe how irresponsible this otherwise normal, conservative middle-aged dad was being!
It has been a long time since I have been this disgusted with a LW. Newsflash, OP, all kids are basically assholes at various times, some more than others. They’re selfish, lack impulse control, etc, which is all totally age appropriate. You, however, are well past the age where that kind of behavior can be explained away, so the most likely explanation is that you are a miserable, toxic human being. Your boyfriend’s daughter, as well as your own children most likely, are much better off with you out of the picture.
JD, you’re right, this is a monumental waste of time, but if it helps just one person feel like they’re not alone, it was worth it. Besides, I have the day off, and I’m pretty good at multitasking!
Omg you do not comprehend common sense. Yes he did raise her to drink if he bought it omg you are in delusional land.
Also all you’ve helped anyone to do is steer clear of psychos like you.
It’s hard for us to understand because we’re largely normal, well-adjusted people with feelings, while you’re sounding more and more like a sociopath who doesn’t relate to the rest of the human race. Again, it’s you. Not us. Not her.
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