I can't reach her…
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Ya If I ever found out a man was speaking about me that way I’d be wanting a restraining order. It just comes across as so weird. You don’t see her as a person, she is some ideal in your head. No doubt the moment she showed a behavior you didn’t like you would turn psycho or put her down. I say just ask her out but seriously I think it would be better if you left her alone until you can understand people and women better.
BittergaymarkDecember 13, 2018 at 6:02 pm #811915HOW DO I WEAKEN THE WALL.
(lost lost n-sync b-side)In love I need her to Fall
(how do I weaken the wall?)
Maybe take her to the Mall
(how do I weaken the wall?)
My feelings they ain’t small
(how do I weaken the wall?)
Too scared to text or call
(how do I weaken the wall?)I-I-I-I-I’mmmmmmmmm obsessive
I-I-I-I-I’mmmmmmmmm possessive
Maybe even
a bit regressiveThat doesn’t mean my love ain’t true.
Still I need her to Fall
(how do I weaken the wall?)
I’m not that tall
(how do I weaken the wall?)
Things are starting to stall
(how do I weaken the wall?)
Okay, okay, I want us to ball
(how do I weaken the wall?)BittergaymarkDecember 13, 2018 at 9:14 pm #811927Dear Wendy: The Musical
The setting is Wendy’s Apartment and as the letters come in they miraculously manifest themselves into flesh and blood singing characters. Things get REALLY interesting when both commentators and LW’s refuse to leave?
Is this all in poor Wendy’s head or is it truly some strange new magical reality?
ele4phantDecember 13, 2018 at 10:52 pm #811932JEEEESSSSUUUUUUSSSSS, this guy.
Look – she’s probably not interested. The wall in getting to know her is that she’s not that interested in getting to know you, and there’s not really anything you can do to change that.
However, I don’t know her. I could be wrong. So rather than try to help you divine in the zoid, I’m going to tell you to just ask her out. The way to figure out how she feels about you. is to ask her how she feels about you. Don’t make a huge thing of it, just “Hey, I’d like to get to know you better. Would you be interested in doing (insert whatever low stress but clearly date like activity you’d prefer here)?”
Be clear, and you’ll get a clear answer. It really is that simple.
She may reject you, and that’ll suck. But then you can move on already.
BittergaymarkDecember 14, 2018 at 12:31 am #811936(Jesus! This guy!)
he makes us cry
(Jesus! This guy!)
why oh why
(Jesus! This guy!)
it’s enough to make you dieCrazy young fool
who don’t have a clue
Crazy young fool
who don’t know what to do(Jesus! This guy!)
he needs to let sleeping dogs lie
(Jesus! This guy!)
why oh why
(Jesus! This guy!)
away like jet she should fly…You can’t trick someone into liking you.
Think about someone you like but are not attracted to. Now, if they laid on the charm, would you find them attractive?
To be honest, you have built all this in you head and put her on a pedastal. If she’s half as bright as you make out, she’s proably worked it out anyway and also decided on what she would do if you made a move.
So, make a move. Don’t be weird, or try to ‘breaken the wall’. Ask her for a coffee, bowling etc, if she suggests a friend, say you were hoping just the two of you. If she says it’s too far away, then you know what, it wouldn’t work anyway.
If she says no, at least she’ll respect you for having the guts to ask and her and it will be out in the open.
You know what? When I was your age, I was mooning over someone (ah, the lovely Hazel). I never did anything and everyone in our group knew about it. She was non-committal because she liked the attention.
PS- she’s not a puzzzle, she’s just a person like you and me, who needs to eat, sleep and poops like the rest of the world.
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