Maybe @Mike will tarnish BGM’s rep on IMBD by posting screenshots of the “idiotboy” comment in his trivia section!

Mike, some advice just for you. In the future, when you want to disagree, do so without insults. When you drop into insults you sound like you are on an elementary school playground and everyone then takes their cue from you and treats you like a child. If you want to disagree you do so respectfully. You say you don’t agree because …

Make your point or points and give the reasons why. People will actually engage you when you don’t act like a bully. You don’t convey sincerity when you insult. You convey childishness, an inability to speak like an adult.

I’m sorry that your wife was sexting. It hurts and it damages marriages. If you came on and explained the situation you would get sympathy and advice. Probably you’d get advice to seek couples counseling and advice to see if the marriage could be fixed. You didn’t choose to do that. You chose to be insulting and so you got insulting back. You seem to be blaming Wendy for the choices your wife has made and to be insulting women in general. Not all women are sexting behind their husband’s back. The way that you are generally rude and insulting makes people feel that maybe you treat your wife that way and then people feel that maybe she has a reason to be sexting behind your back.

Try politeness. It’s an asset in every life.

Ok, I just read the original post for the first time, and A) the guy just says his feelings are hurt, not that he’s devastated or suicidal, and B) Wendy suggests he examine his feelings and maybe talk to his wife, not that he take his own life or throw his marriage in the dumpster.