Can’t you just ask someone at the wedding to live-stream it to you at home? That’s what my cousin did when he married an Iranian girl (in Los Angeles) whose father couldn’t get out of Tehran in time to go to the wedding.
I am on team Wife. It is too far, too close. I wouldn’t let my DH go either.
If you don’t understand why, then yoyou may need a kick in the ass.
I wouldn’t chance it. If she gets stressed, that could send her into labour early.I would have lost my mind if my husband had gone away at that time.