Updates: “Not a Charity Case” Responds
It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Not a Charity Case” whose sister basically ignored her save for a drop-by visit to her house every few months wherein she would shove money at the LW. “I lost my job two years ago, but we are by no means struggling financially. I want her to understand that she can’t leave money at my house. I don’t need the money and it makes me feel like a charity case. I am at my wit’s end!” Keep reading to see if the sister has finally stopped leaving money at the LW’s house.
I’m sorry to hear things ended sadly, and I hope there’s still a chance for a happier ending at some point. Thank you for your update!
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I’m still baffled by this. Half the family has disowned this LW, and baby sister is apparently nuts—yet I’m not sure why baby sister leaving money after a visit (and I have no idea why the LW didn’t just ASK her that instead of launching right into complaining or agreeing with brother that the sister was “using” her—using her how? Why? What?).
Baffling.
LW, look on the bright side: your sister is no longer driving you nuts by leaving money all over your house AND your down one source of drama in your life. Bonus: you helped shelter pets!
Seriously, as much as it sucks that she’s reacted this way, this is her problem, not yours and you’re better off without this level of … whatever it is… in your life.